1 persn in my entire life asked me out. Everyone seems to stare and try to talk but nothing more.
Most Helpful Guy
Your answer is in your own question.
Ever since i was young, everytime i liked a girl or found her attractive i would just stare at her. I stared at her in hopes she stares at me back and finds me attractive as well, but even if that happens i was still way too scared to go and talk to her. I would just end up exchanging a lot of eye contact with her until one of us leaves and if i was the one to leave (like exiting the bus) i would leave in a walk of shame and downtalk myself or just make excuses to myself why i didn't go talk to her or ask her out.
This phenomenon is very very common in guys, especially when we see really pretty girls. Many times we just think 'she's too pretty for me' or 'a girl like her would never be interested in a guy like me' or 'she must have tons of guys asking her out or hitting on her so i'm not competing with them'.
Only recently have i improved myself and gained a lot of confidence to ask a girl out. I've asked like 10-15 girls so far. But Even now, i still stare at many pretty girls but never ask them out because i'm not really looking for a relationship right now. But when i meet a girl who has the beauty of my dreams (large dark eyes, pretty face, dark hair) then i force myself to do a little more and talk to her.
So yea, after you read what i said. Read your whole question again, and then you will be able to relate to what i said and understand it.
It's basically 2 general factors:
1. Because you are too pretty
2. Because many of us are scared to approach a girl and ask her out.0
Most Helpful Girl
well u know, being pretty isn't what it's all about. some men might find u intimidating, others may think ur too good and they have no chance with u. others could think ur a bitch [sad i know]. others just want u to do the approaching. stuff like that.1