Me and my sister got in an argument because of my girl friend, two days ago. She felt like I "chose" my girlfriend over her and she said that she hates me and I told her that I hated her back. I am 18, she was 15. I am in college, so we don't live in the same house. But I found out today, that she committed suicide. I don't think it was because of me but it KILLS me that I told her I hated her before she died. If I go to her grave will she hear me? Should I visit a psychic or priest? I don't know what to do. My heart hurts so fucking bad knowing that I won't ever be able to see or talk to her again. I need to tell her that I love her and she's important to me. I'm literally dying, I can't get over our fight. Everytime, I think of her I just cry and yell her name. How can I talk to her?
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I'm really really sorry...
Life always surprise us with good and bad things and the only thing that we can do is face them, I know that this is probably very hard to understand, u are gonna have to be very strong. Don't blame yourself for what u said to her, we never know and we say things we don't mean so many times and Im sure she knew that u didn't mean that, don't get stuck in that moment, instead, be grateful for all the moments u had with her, she was a blessing for your life and u were one for hers
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Forces of nature says soul keeps going forward, one life after another within few months her soul will find another foetus! And if her soul is strong enough she will remember it all of it in her next life and visit you in another human form someday
It has happened in many cases... Of rebirth
you cannot stop her cause if you stop her she will be stuck. Until you again use exorcism to push her away, and the truth is that she is gone... It's not your fault. ..
The best you can do is Apologize on her grave, and visit it quite often with your girlfriend and letting her know that you didn't hate her you wanted all of you to be together.. And you are sorry that you pushed her away instead of listening her that day when she needed you..
Blunt truth is she is around for few more weeks, until you forget her and are ready to move on! You just need to find a silent area! And call out her name few times prefer to be In open or her favorite place, and once as soon as you feel chills on any part of body you will know she is right next to you.
Then apologize and say her good bye, letting her know how much she ment to you. And it was really wrong the way she left you and the world. And maybe let her know that she is not alone you will someday join her once your task in this realm are over.0