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Most Helpful Girl
social conventions be damned; if it was a guy i cared about, then yes, i'd feel awful (because it would mean that i did something awful to make him cry).
one time, my boyfriend was super wasted and, out of nowhere, broke down crying and saying that i was the best thing that had ever happened to him and that he would do anything for me~ so i ran into the other room (not caring at all that i'm asthmatic and he'd just chain-smoked 4 cigarettes in a row) and gave him a big hug.
(lungs be damned, i have my priorities)0
Most Helpful Guy
I feel bad whenever I make anyone cry. I'm kind of a pacifist when it comes to people's emotions, because I know what it feels like. And I know some people get upset easier, even if it's a stupid reason. I like to put myself in there shoes and view the situation from their perspective from what I can gather. And if it looks bad from their perspective, then I'll help reassure them I didn't mean to hurt them. I hate hurting people, I don't see how some people can do it so easily and not give a shit at all.
I'd feel so guilty if I just made someone cry for no reason.0