I get nervous even if I am not attracted to the guy and I hate it :(
Most Helpful Guy
You have to practice, and get used to talking to people!! I openly 'Flirt' with the older ladies at the check-outs, and the married women, at work! I work on getting them to laugh, and smile, and feel comfortable.
I love flirting with the married women at work, because they all have kids, they are all more than a little 'btchy' and frustrated, and they giggle like little teens when I tell them how they look so amazing today, and I notice that they got their hair colored.
The two single girls seem to like it too! One has always been something of a little, uptight prude, since she was hired, but we talked, a few times, in the copy room, and she blushes, sometimes, when I tell her how much I like what she is wearing, and why.
Don't be nervous!! Just talk with guys that you really don't feel anything for, at first, to just get comfortable with talking with guys!! Do it at the grocery store, or places other than work! Just relax and talk to them. When you feel a little more confident, go to the checker that is kind of like, or sort of, almost, hot, and flirt, and talk, and try to get him to smile!
If you aren't offended, you can always use the 'Girl Card'. Like some guy you like is close, and you bend over, trying to pick up a box of copy paper, or something. Is he looking? Pretend you can't, and ask for help. Guys LOVE helping hot girls!!0
Most Helpful Girl
Lol, I find it easy to talk to the opposite sex. My best friend is a guy. I find that I can have fun and joke around with a guy much easier than I can with a girl. I feel like I can just relate to them more. I feel like I have more awkward silences with girls than I do with guys.0