I discovered layely that Im kind of afraid of men. Not shy but scared.. I dont want anyone to get near me. Even if it was my boyfriend. Also I can't carry a normal conversation with them..
Im trying to find am explanation but I dont know. Its not that I have a weak personality or smth...
Why and what should I do.
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry you feel that way.
If you want an explanation, you may want to try to look at how your relationship with your father and brother (s) (if you had any) was growing up, any male figures really. Therapy or counseling could be useful. And don't be scared about starting or trying therapy or counseling! More successful people than you may realize have gone through that kind of process.
In the least you can confide in a good friend you. They can listen.
If part of your fear is in the uncertainty of what power or action a guy could do, maybe you need to remind yourself of how assertive and powerful you can be. Kickboxing or strength training or a martial art discipline could help with some confidence (just saying).
It's good you can identify these kind of aspects of yourself and even better when you're looking to improve! Congrats on that.0
Most Helpful Girl
Than I you need to warm up!0