People think I'm joking when I say I haven't cried in years
Last time I cried besides this situation was about... Early 2012 or late 2011
I went through a lot.
My mom got me therapist after therapist after therapist.
None of them fazed me at all..
But there was this one therapist that got to me.. I don't know how she did it but she did.. Big time
It wasn't a sweet convo she got smart with me for skipping school
She would yell at me act
One day she started talking about my dad who left my family for another family
She said something like
( I usually ignored her the whole session)
You can't run away from your problems.. You're not your dad"
She said something like that not exactly that though and I yelled at her (forgot what I said)
Then I walked out, she said
"Of my God I struck a nerve"
And ran after me I started crying i tried my hardest not to but the tears like forced their way out my eyes and I put my shirt over my face
Then she came up and made me look her in the eyes
And hugged me for about 10 minutes talking to me
When she hugged me I just couldn't stop crying literally
Why did this happen it was the first time I cried in yeaarrss I didn't even cry when my dad left I just got mad
She might've been a therapist or cps worker I don't know
Most Helpful Girl
Most Helpful Guy
If you haven't already, go back to her... or if too uncomfortable with her, another therapist. Expand on what happened. Don't be afraid to go into details, you just sobbed on a person for 20 mins lol, there isn't much to be embarrassed or reserved about now. It sounds like you have issues with your father leaving. Maybe resentment, and or fear of becoming your father. All I know is talking about those deep emotions can help a lot, even if you just found out about them. And even if the other person couldn't give a sh*t, just getting it out can be an accomplishment.0