Most Helpful Guy
Unless you get fat because of certain things such as prescription medications, there is no excuse to be fat. Don't blame genes. Don't blame metabolism. In 99% of cases people who use those excuses are bullshitting.
If you can't eat healthy and can't take care of yourself, what does that say about you? You can't control how much or what you eat, you don't exercise; It goes to show you are irresponsible. You can't take care of your own health, what makes us think that you can take care of other things? It's all about discipline.
Cherry on top, yes, overweight/fat is visually unattractive and also hazardous to your health (hypertension, increased risk of heart disease, respiratory issues, etc.)
I was overweight/obese for most of my life (basically until age 22) and it was terrible all-around. Don't tread into that territory, don't listen to the "fat is pretty" garbage in the media. It does you NO favors, only a false sense of security.1
Most Helpful Girl
not really, just have a good heart and someone will desire you regardless of weight3