Im well aware I need to lose weight and want to but I hate change. I'm only losing or trying to lose weight cause I'm obese
My pic is on my profile. I just want to know if I'd be capable of attracting someone if I was to drop 70-85lbs. I'm currently at 270. If not should I stop trying in life?
Most Helpful Girl
To some people weight doesn't matter, it certainly doesn't matter to me. I'm fine with my body, whether I lose weight or not. I exercise for myself because I want to, not to attract other people, if I happen to lose weight fine, if I stay the same weight fine, as long as I am as active as I can be.
I didn't have any better luck with dating when I was thinner, than I do now. I don't think you should stop trying in life, I think you should exercise for yourself, and not focus on trying to find someone. The right person will support you, and care about you no matter where you are at with your weight, or stages in life, struggles, etc. Someone who bases how much they care about you on your appearance isn't a very good person anyway. Attraction is important, but there's something called attraction and emotion being connected. Often if you care about someone romantically, you will be attracted to them even if they lost all their hair, or they aren't as tall or short as you normally go for, or you never really liked freckles but they have freckles. Suddenly all the things you didn't think you liked, you love more than anything about them.
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind."
Lose weight for yourself, no one else. You'll find a someone to love one day, don't focus your personal health journey on whether people will be attracted to you.0
Most Helpful Guy
There's always a chance. That's the wrong question to ask. You should be wondering about the probability. And that's something that we can't answer with any degree of accuracy without knowing more than you're obese.
Don't lose weight to try to get a bitch. Lose weight because you want to. Lose weight because you want to improve. Lose weight because you want to be the best that you can. That will not only make it easier to achieve, it will put you in a better frame of mind. And that frame is what will help you meet a bitch.0