My boyfriend likes to play video games, watch anime, wear anime clothing or shirts with jokes & stuff. He has no clothing that would be decent for a date. It's all stuff he would also wear when he was 12, 13 and he is now 23. His clothing hasn't changed at all except for the sizes. He wears spiderman, naruto, dragon ball z, etc.
I really wish he would have at least a couple of clothing items that he could wear for a date or just to go to the beach with me. I feel like he just doesn't want to grow up. He is autistic so I'm wondering if maybe that's why.
He refuses to wear any shirts with buttons, stripes or a texture he doesn't like which means that if its not cotton.
Am I crazy or he has to change his style? He finishes school in a couple of months and will have to go on the job market. I feel like he will never get a job if he still wears dragon ball z shirts!
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Him being an individual with ASD is certainly a factor.
Autistic people generally have little concern about how appropriate their clothing is in terms of social norms, whether they be related to age, maturity, or otherwise. He wears what he likes, which in this case, is clothing related to cartoons that he's still interested in.
You're not crazy, neither does he have to change his style. Whether his current apparel will negatively impact his experience in finding a job or not is his business, not yours.0