Why exactly am I scarily attached to people?

I don't give a shit for most of the year, but whenever I've to think about leaving someone... it freaks me out.

And the worst part is, they always know! They see this pathetic, crumbling side of me that just wants some love and attention and lose pretty much ALL respect for me.

Why do I do this? I do this every time.

It's also more about the guys than the women which makes it worse.

I never want them to stop loving me forever and ever.


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What Guys Said 1

  • you're scared of being alone


What Girls Said 1

  • I get really attached to guys I like. I don't know what to do about it either.

    • Are they crushes or boyfriends?

    • Well actually he's the only one I've ever felt like 'attached' to. He's not my boyfriend. You could call him a crush, but we've done stuff together, and he's just not in the right place for a relationship right now. I'm hoping when he is that he will come back to me. In a way it feels like he's supposed to be family, not to sound creepy.