I want to start off by saying that I'm currently unemployed living with my grandmother and that I have no way around, I'm single and always have been single (which is a source of my low self esteem, my depression and bitterness) I'm at my wits end. I do not know what to do besides the obvious. I feel like everything is easier said then done. I'm sick and tired of living a life that I don't want to live.
Most Helpful Girl
try to change things up a little. Day to day, doing the same thing can be depressing. You don't look ugly so I'm sure girls would date you if you get out on the town. Try to go out and have some fun. I know you are tired of your life, I know how that feels, I really do. But you've got to try, what do you have to lose anyway.. I hope things improve for you0
Most Helpful Guy
You think you've had it worst? There are other people out there with fates much worse than yours, believe me. I've been unemployed for quite some time before getting back in the work force and even right now I'm not happy with my life either, never really was, only either More Unhappy or Less Unhappy. I can relate on that.
Life is miserable because none of us asked or wanted to come into this reality and existence and yet we are here Only because of random chance that our Parents choose to create us, because they Could and Wanted To. But in the end the choice is ours to make on what we want to do with our lives no matter how miserable it may turn out to be.
As for being chronically single, also can relate on that as well. Don't let my age displayed fool you. I'm actually in my mid-30s and been single throughout since the very beginning. Still alive and kicking, and not gonna give up on life and living.
However, I more or less had given up "love" because of my views and outlook of this world and reality as I find this world and reality to be absolutely absurd. And because I realize that "love" is just like "there is no spoon" in "the matrix" so I just can't agree on pursuing any lady out there at all when I find "love" to be delusions that come from chemical reactions of hormones in our minds and body, that it really isn't 100% real. You can't rely on someone else to make you happy or complete you such as through an established relationship. And relationships aren't as simple and easy as you want them to be or expect them to be either. I've seen enough bad breakups and divorces that made me look into the whole whether "love" actually even existed in the first place and whether or not if it's even real, which led to how I currently feel and think about that kind of "love".
There's always something you can still do to earn some pocket cash locally around the neighborhood. But if I were you I'd still be grateful that I'd have a place to stay than not, as when compared to being completely broke and homeless.
it's difficult times for many people. Don't give up so soon. Someone had said that you only live once, and while you're here you might as well make the most of it and have as much fun as possible while you still can before time's up.0