Anyone been in a similar situation? What does it take to get over this bullshit. I don't think what she did was selfish, but i blame myself for not being there enough, i tried my best to be there but sometimes i just simply couldn't.
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Hey, I have a word for men who know when, and how, to let themselves break down and be "weak".
That word is... "strong".
Homework assignment for you, if you're game:
• Grab a notebook.
• Think about this: What, in life, do you appreciate more since tragedy struck? To what, or whom, do you give extra TLC? What parts of your younger, dumber self did you shed?
Probably a long list.
Write it all down. Write it in story form. Write verses that don't rhyme. Hell, even write random words that might not even make sense when you look back at them, if that's all you can muster.
Then keep it somewhere.
Every now and then, pull it out and look at it.
That list, is her.
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