Being pregnant at 19 isn't as easy as i thought it'd be. I've been thinking about my situation and i got that i should choose between these two! Let go of the baby for college or say goodbye to college and stay home for the baby. The baby's father promised me that if i choose to stay home he'll support us and we won't need anything, if i choose college and get rid of the baby i will hate myself for it for the rest of my life. Is it worth it? He asked me to think about it and take my decision and then tell him but i can't think alone so.
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Most Helpful Guy
College is your future, it opens up careers that you will need later in life to make a living, and you can always make another baby down the road.5
Most Helpful Girl
I know I'm the minority here but you're sooo young, having a baby will change your life. You more than likely won't be able to attend college even after the baby is born, once you have a baby your life isn't yours anymore it's your child's life. I've got a toddler and child care is so expensive that I can't work can't go to school. Whose going to watch my child for free every day all day while I'm either working or attending school? My Moma is sick and can't watch my child all my family and friends work plus I'm getting a divorce. It is really hard. I'm not saying give your baby up but are you really ready for this? And sister men don't always stick around or have your best interest at heart. Think long and hard about this. Children are wonderful yes but also lots of hard work. I live for my child I do but eventually I'm going to try to better myself for my child but for now I'm stuck. It's hard. It really is. I'll be praying for you and my best wishes to you which ever you choose to do.1