Say they grew up in an abusive household or their peers were ruthless towards them.. or both.
Most Helpful Girl
Typically those who caused the damage.
Though sometimes perspective can take place. My grandmother was in multiple foster homes growing up because her parents died in a fire when she was a baby. She was abused by multiple people. You'd think she'd be mean and grouchy, right? But she is actually one of the sweetest, nicest, most generous people you could ever meet.
Some people either go one way or the other.
Most Helpful Guy
Why blame anyone? Why not just fix the situation? Putting the blame somewhere is a sign of weakness.0