What are some good questions to ask a person when you are trying to get to know them?

I know at lot of good questions to ask I just want to see if you guys & girls can help me


Most Helpful Girl

  • When asking what their favorite this and that is, make sure to ask why. Why why why. That is how you really understand someone. If you ask, "Summer or winter" and they say "winter", that is that. But if you ask why, you may find out that he or she loves staying indoors and watching movies or that they don't like to sweat or that their favorite drink is hot chocolate :)


What Guys Said 2

  • Start with work or school... that is an easy icebreaker

  • Hobbies things of interest. Nothing to personally. Then if they warm up to you go and talk about whatever


What Girls Said 1

  • Ice breakers:

    What do you do for work?
    Are you from here?
    What do you do in your spare time?
    Do you have any siblings, do you have any pets?
    How do you know so and so?
    Do you come here often?

    When you know them a little better:

    What's your family like?
    What's your favorite childhood memory/what was life like for you growing up?
    What would be your dream job?
    If you could take off and go anywhere right now, where would it be?
    First thing you'd buy if you won the lottery?

    Deeper questions:

    Do you believe in a higher power?
    Political opinions?
    What's the hardest thing you've ever done in life?
    Do you believe in the paranormal?
    Where do you see yourself in five years?

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