Ok i am 19 year old introverted person who never had any friend or even girlfriend in my life. i hate to say but i am just too introverted to care much about anyone. [i know being introverted is not equal to being lonely forever. but both statements are independent of each other in my case]. SO i just hate small talks, kinda have ego issues , get repelled by almost everybody who tries to or hurts ego. i also have trust issues. I get distracted easily and think too much even on something thats not even important. There has never been anyone who stayed my friend for more then 3 weeks and thing is that everybody hates me and avoid eye contact with me bcoz of my attitude. I kinda stay at hostel and have single room where nobody comes. its like some dark go down where i am the only one. My attitude and thinking has become like i dont want to talk to anybody and hardly help anyone who approaches me. bocz i dont like people who would come to me only if they need anything from me. I dont know how do i talk to people. I cried every fucking day thinking how sad is that to stay alone like forever as even ugliest and most boring people also have friends but me. I think no ones gonna cre if i die, then whats the point in liveing. I have been staying here for like 2 years and have to stay for 2 more year.[i survived without any friends].. And these days people have started to ignore me when i need some help. Even if i talk to anybody they just here it at ignore... only if i speak 3-4 times they respond with single ''hmm' or any other one word reply which eventually hurts my ego. I can't even involve my parents in it bcoz then they would feel sad too. Its like i literally feel like stone.
Most Helpful Girl
If you want someone to be friends with you and care about you, you gotta show the same to them. Friendship is not a one way thing. It's gotta go both ways. And from the sounds of it, you have done nothing to show that you are approachable are that you even give a shit about anybody. As soon as you change your attitude about others, they will change theirs about you.6
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Guy
I'm in a similar boat.
Just stop giving a shit about people and live for yourself because if you don't put yourself first then NOBODY else will. Sure we don't have girlfriends... but man who needs em? Save your time and money, be productive, and improve your life situation. You may be alone but YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS.
I won't blame you for quitting, but I look forward to what my life will be like in the future. Lots of money for whatever I want & zero debt.1