Like why is it so weird or wrong like me and him are in love he doesn't try to get to to sleep with him he respects me we relate because I'm mature and so is he. Like we are happy he doesn't try to harm me he only loves me and protects me... why is that so wrong
Most Helpful Guy
Because realistically every youth feels the same way as you do, but they don't rationally know just how bad--bad can become when they forget they are really still just a child and the person you're dealing with is an adult. If you were out on your own, separated from your parents and you were living as an adult, paying your own debts... et cetera, then be what comes you would be in a position to make your own mistakes and live with the consequences, but you aren't.
In my experiences, I've met and known individuals who have gone to court and separated themselves from their parents and were living in the world as an adult and had no safety net to catch them when a situation got tough; they couldn't fall back on the excuse they were just a child.
Can you suggest the same? Are you living on your own, under your own roof, subject to no other authority but your own? See this is why people believe it is wrong, in my opinion, because you aren't an adult or living as an adult yet, you are a child, therefore they are treating you as a child in need of protecting, and it is not for this male to do that, because despite your statements you aren't sexual together, that's really not the point.
If he truly cared for you and loved you, then he would recognize this, because he is old enough to know better and should wait until you are of an age to proper court and get to know. And when you are together, there should be a chaperone to stay off the perception that either of you are doing something improper. He should be protecting your reputation as well as he desires to protect you physically.2
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm boys that age are horny. He eventually might want to see if he can get you down that path. Also he is a fucking adult, meaning you might be a little green still (naive). Guys only date younger girls for these reasons, manipulation, having her do whatever he wants, sex, they might can't get a real woman who won't put up with their shit so they look for younger girls. Everyone thinks they are mature until you're around all his friends and you can't drink because you're not 21 and you can't have a stimulation conversation, besides snapchat and Instagram.1