I really want to just get lighter tips. And my mom is bitching about it and I've had it up to here. I just wanted to get semi-permanent done and I found the one I want, read reviews, and it even said it was semi and she says it's not semi and it's going to turn green or some crap. And she'd rather get it done 'professionally' meanwhile, it comes with directions and step-by-step instructions. I'm only doing the ends. IT WILL GROW OUT. I don't know what to do, I had it to the point where I actually started tearing up and crying. All my friends have their hair dyed, others getting even more color than I want and my friend even got a piercing on her ear. A PIERCING THAT IS PERMANENT. Meanwhile, I can't even do one thing to myself. It's not just that, she always has to say what clothes I wear, this, and that, and I am so fed up I just wanna really punch something right now. And I even see all the other girls online who cut their hair short, and they are my age and can just do what the hell they want, but when you have a mother who doesn't let you do anything, I feel heartbroken.
Most Helpful Guy
I was 15 when I was allowed to do it. It was just foam that you applied in the shower and it was semi-permanent, made my hair dark purple.
I didn't do any permanent colours until I was 20.0
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Piercings can be taken out and the hole will close up... I should know I've accidentally done that and had to get my ears re-pierced (go fuck yourself, ref who made me take my earrings out)
Anyways, that was not the question. You're mother wants to control how you look, because as my mother tells me all the time, "how you look in a reflection of our family" which is bullshit, it's a reflection of me. My mom let me cut my hair short because I made a convincing case that it looked really nice and the hairdresser agreed, and dye the ends for a couple of days (for Warped tour) with temporary dye, but it took forever to convince my mom to let me do it.
Ask your mother why she wants to control how you look so much, maybe she has a good reason (she won't but ask anyway) and talk about ways you could do what you want without overstepping the boundaries.0