I feel like I'm so annoying to my boyfriend. The weak girl who cries out to her boyfriend when she sees a bug. He takes care of them for me without complaining. He even finds it cute.
But still... I feel so annoying. If I see one when I'm alone at home I'd even go "bye felicia" and leave the house. I'm THAT terried of them. It's a phobia and I can't do anything about it. I even cry because of it. :'(
Is it annoying? Or is it just in my mind?
- Don't stress, it's cute. boyfriend is telling the truth.Vote A
- It's not just in your mind. It's annoying.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Don't worry. I bet he's telling the truth. It's certainly no big deal. Most people are scared of them. I mean look at this, isn't it horrible?
Sure it's horrible.
But don't make a big deal if there's really no bug at all. You'd kill his mood. Get scared ONLY if you see one. Generally, guys find it proud moment when they do something for their girl.0
Most Helpful Girl
If it's a legitimate phobia, then no one should be complaining. Your issue with bugs is not you being prissy, but a legitimate mental thing, and so someone judging you for that would be like judging someone for having anxiety or depression--obviously, not okay. Sounds like your boyfriend is being very sweet about it. Don't feel bad about it, love.1