So I'm dating this girl and not too long ago she posted a sexy picture on Instagram. Showing off her body. Things like that are a totally turn off to me, like showing off your body on social media just to have a couple guys and girls drool over you. Am I just being a prude?
Most Helpful Girl
To be honest, I would feel the same way if my boyfriend posted such pictures.
I bet the girl you're dating enjoys the attention she receives.2
Most Helpful Guy
When I was younger it would drive me crazy is someone looked at "my girl"fast forward 10/15, years and it doesn't bother me , as much. Now a days social media is the platform people can express themselves. Did you tell her it bothers you? Are the overly provocative?
If you sit back and take a look at the big picture I bet they aren't that bad and even thou your guys are dating she is still her own person. It's not "your body" as someone commented. Follow me on this one. People buy cars and rims with stero systems, fancy clothes, expensive paintings. People take pride in showing what they have. Maybe not you perse but if you have a pretty girl you should be flattered other people find her pretty as well. Don't get we wrong if her FB account has single as her status and is messaging guys then maybe we have an issue, but if you step back take a look at it and take the "my girl" out of the mix is the picture still offensive? Prob not. Talk with you girlfriend communication is what makes a relationship stand the test of time. Good luck0