So, this girl, i've liked her for about 3 years now, and for the past couple months, i would stay up really late up at night, and just think about her or maybe eve look at a couple pictures of her. She's been one of my best friends for about 9-10 years and just thinking about her makes my heart pound out my chest, and the only thing that slows it down and helps even a little is probably listening to R&B. So, I've liked this girl for a long time and i've been wondering if what i'm doing is creepy or not.
Most Helpful Girl
Like, you need to learn how to talk to women. The thing is, if they aren't attracted to you, you won't know if you don't ask. I mean, if you are building up all these feelings for someone, it seems silly if you don't even know if they like you back
You need to talk to her and see where you stand... And of course, accept what she says, yes or no.
But like, you don't sound creepy, just really inexperienced. You need to learn to take a risk and ask, and you need to learn not to invest so much emotion in a person who isn't even dating you -- invest emotion into people who are romantically interested in you, not the other way around.0
Most Helpful Guy
Its not creepy, its called you have feelings for her. I think its normal for anyone crushing on someone to look up pics. Just don't get too invested in her in case things don't work out, try to see if she may be having the same feelings. If she doesn't its better to know before you get too obsessed and can't take your mind off her yet can't have her either.0
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