Ok, so some people on here think I am being stubborn, because I don't want to get married. It is not I don't want to, it is just that is not an official decision, and I have my reasons.
And besides, I am only turning 15 this year. It is not like I am 21, and marriage should be a priority or something. I am just enjoy my teen years, and I am not think about "marriage". I am to young anyway.
So then how is that being stubborn? And why do they keep says I will change my mind? What if I never change my mind? :/
Most Helpful Guy
At 14, you may think that you never want to have children and you never want to be married. When you were 7-8 years old, you probably said that you would never kiss a boy. At one time, you had never eaten pizza. Life brings things that you don't anticipate and that is what keeps it interesting.
So, as you grow older, your interests will change, but. . . you are right. There is absolutely no need for you to make such decisions now. Enjoy your life, have fun, and if anyone keeps pestering you, tell them to go talk to @OlderAndWiser!1
Most Helpful Girl
You are not stubborn, girl. I am in the same boat, actually. I don't want to get married because of personal reasons yet people around me convince me to change for my "future happiness."
Conviction and certainty should not be mistaken for stubborn behavior and mindset. You are very much certain about your preferences in life (which I find really excellent in terms of making decisions for one's self in accordance to interest and capabilities.)
Those people better not meddle with your choices for you are the master of your own domain. 😊1