Who else would agree? If you are nice to people?

You give them the authority to be mean to you, if they want?

And if if your mean to them they are more likely to leave you alone.

If you disagree, then why?


What Girls Said 1

  • If you are nice to them, you may give them the authority to be mean to you, but you are still holding the power because you don't have to accept their mean treatment.
    But if you are mean to people you actually invite them to be mean back.
    It's always best to be aloof and disinterested, giving them no chance to interact with you in the first place.


What Guys Said 1

  • Well some people will mistake kindness for weakness, and if that's the case in their mind yes. But, if you show that you won't let yourself be mistreated, and are kind otherwise then you're not setting yourself up for anything for people to be mean like what you're saying.