And under what circumstances would it be okay? Because tbh I don't know if there are any circumstances where you couldn't just break up with whoever you're cheating on with, even if you want to keep your sexuality on the DL. Well, i guess under pain of death.
Also, is it really harder to be a gay male?
... pun totally intended.
> dude has a girlfriend
> dude has a secret affair with another dude
> whether or not he is full on gay, bi, pan, whatever is irrelevant
> because he has a girlfriend and is also harboring a secret affair with another guy
> that's cheating, and so the question: Is being gay an excuse for having one established SO while also enjoying a side chick/dude (in your opinion)
Most Helpful Guy
Of course not. Cheating is disgusting no matter why it's done or with whom you do it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. If you know you're gay or just somehow figured it out, you let the other person know, "hey, I'm not into you like that because I like dicks" (or vag) and move on.1