I've always been told that people will do whatever it takes to go for the person they most desire no matter what but is this always true? I've had guys show interest in me and then stop talking to me and leave me hanging so I'm just trying to figure this all out.
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Most Helpful Guy
Yes, when things get complicated and feelings get hurt sometimes you avoid someone to give them time and space. Sometimes you need time and space alone to heal wounds before communication can occur. If you can't set feelings aside and be on the same page you can not reasonably communicate. I've experienced this with someone presently, and I'm also avoiding them for the reasons I've mentioned.2
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, there was this guy in my high school, we hung out once, we had a really good time, then after that three to four months went of us to not talking at all, he kept looking at me all the time though (I was confused cause he ignored my message...). I eventually spoke to him and we were real close again, and few months later I asked him about why he didn't talk to me back then and he said cause he really liked me but didn't know what to do and pussied out. I liked him too at that time but by the point we talked about this we had both already stared to like someone else so we didn't really end up dating, but we're still good friends to this day.0