If you had to pick between having a SO, but no friends or having no SO, but really great group of friends, which would you pick?
What Girls Said 25
Before I found my SO, I had a bunch of good friends. After I found my SO, I slowly distanced myself with my friends just cause my SO became my best friend.
If I were to choose, I would definitely go with the SO with no friends situation. But only do this if your SO is your best friend and not just a lover. With my old friends, I would occasionally feel like I couldn't tell them certain things or feel embarrassed about them. With my SO, I can tell him everything and anything I want without any regrets.1
Friends. My amazing friends have stuck with me through bad break ups and all my ups and down in life. Plus I don't need to constantly give my friends attention for them to keep our relationship up, I can have as much space as I like when I feel like it. And I cannot do life without my girls day/night outs. I guess I just prefer it right now since I have such a strong bond with my closest friends, and distance doesn't even bother us one bit, plus we very VERY rarely argue.1
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Hmmm, well, if he was perfect and we were living alone in the woods in a cottage, then, no friends. Just my lover.
If we were just living in the city and I had to have 0 friends, that'd be weird. But I love sex and having a partner. So, I gotta ditch friends again.1
Right now, i'd go with my SO.1
Having a SO with no friends. Its not like I have to many friends anyways1
SO. I'm antisocial, I try to avoid any friends I have lmao
And I assume my SO would be my bff first1
SO and no friends :/1
SO and no friends- this is sort of me now, we are both homebodies and know people but typically we don't go out socializing. I'd rather a SO over friends regardless, even in my more outgoing days.1
A really great group of friends at this age. Possibly just an SO in the future, I don't know, may feel/think different then.2
I reckon I'd pick my so because he is my best friend. It feels like he's the only person there for me these days. But I'd rather have him than anyone else anyway I guess. We have some good times together :)1
Good group of friends. At least when someone decides to unfriend you, it's not the same pain as getting your heart broken1
Probably a SO. If they're a good SO they'll be a great friend as well.1
Good group of friends1
My SO, I love him1
I'd take the SO because friends now days are just as bad as enemies1
Um my partner.0
SO. Friends can't give me sex or a kid. My SO is my friend too anyway, we do hang out like friends sometimes.1
What Guys Said 14
SO and no friends! People suck! Eventually, even a good friend will fuck you or leave you behind. SO is so much more meaningful anyway. SO also wins because if you find the right one, they also become your best friend too!1
A great group of friends cannot replace an SO.
(A vs An is a phonetic convenience. A SO is just too hard to say. Same works the other way. An European is just as hard to say whereas A European is a breeze. Let the rule be 'A' before a consonant sound and 'An' before a vowel sound. Sorry but I am very pedantic about some things.)
PS loving the graphic but the duck will probably initiate a multi-billion $$ lawsuit on the basis of the size of the willie.1
Friends but no cunt.
Friends are far superior.1
having an so... but maybe i only chose that, cause i never had it xD1
I prefer my wife. By far!1
I would rather have a SO, and no friends. I already barely have any friends the way it is.1
I would want to have an SO but no friends. I have never been in a relationship and would love to have one.
Also why that picture?1
Friends. A SO has a way less boundaries and I need space.1
compatible SO any day1
Great friends and then I would get sex from having fwbs.0
Anyone who picks otherwise is retarded.1
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