Usually when I liked a girl I tried to be more reserved about how I felt about her and didn't tell her much, but now I don't care, I just say how I feel... and honestly, it feels great, even if it doesn't go as good as you wanted it to be, you still feel some sort of relief.
So what about you?
- Yes, always
- Sometimes, I wanna do it more often
- Sometimes, I wanna do it less often
- No, never
- Only with certain people
Most Helpful Girl
I used to, now you would have to pry me open with a crowbar to get to my feelings. I've had one too many bad experiences with letting people in and now I can't help but shut everyone out. Recently I messed up a relationship opportunity with a guy that I really liked because I held back how I felt about him so much.
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Most Helpful Guy
Yes and no, it depends on the feeling I guess but in general I don't tend to be very emotional. I mean I am good natured and I do like people but deeper or stronger emotions tend to be repressed. I tend towards analytical so I don't usually like a girl enough to be really expressive until after dating. However if asked I will be very up front about it, I don't really care about being called out or what not so that isn't really the issue its more of trying to go about it in the most efficient (and usually most informed) way possible. Though to be fair while many women are physically attractive I have not met many that I find mentally attractive so I don't usually go after all that many women. As for in other circumstances I am honest with my emotions but I don't show them really, again it tends to be analytical rather then something that I feel, if that makes sense.