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What Guys Said 19
Joti_Harrisonmho 25%Because you are a girl and that's how many girls are. It has to do with the different biology of women. Women have different types and levels of chemical hormones (serotonin, oxytocin e. t. c) to men. I did it in my psychology class in my 1st year back in Uni. Can't remember most of it now. Don't worry it's quite normal.
It depends on what you use your emotions for. You can channel them to love, compassion, empathy, and caring for others.
Or you can be a nag and be fueled by negative energy. No one can help you, its a personal choice a lot of women have to make at some point in their life.00|00|0
seriousmho 21%Hopefully this link helps:
www.lifehack.org/.../...-emotions-effectively.html00|00|0
Mikmex1651mho 22%You should find some creative outlets for your emotions. It could be things like writing, drawing, or playing music. Writing a journal is the easiest one to do though and helps you vent things out
00|00|0Then I would seek additional help from a therapist if you feel like you can't control your emotions. Good luck buddy
Mujtaba666mho 0%I understand, I am also a very emotional person (being a male) and that's is not considered a good thing in the society, but hey society doesn't rule your life, you rule your own life :) .. I've learned that before reacting to anything (whether it makes you sad or hurt or angry), a person needs to think why or how did such thing happen? and then find the root of the problem related to it and destroy it.. don't dwell into it.. I used to dwell into it and it just made me kept thinking and I started self-pitying.. but not Everytime your wrong, so first think of why it did happen, if it did happen because of a reason related to you then I suggest you talk about it with that person directly, but if it has nothing to do with you then you stay calm and enjoy every moment of your life :) .. it's simple.. there's a saying that " we humans, tend to make things:
1. Complicated
OR
2. Simple
the choice is yours.. "
And also find a person to talk to like family members or a best friend that you can trust.. talk to them, express yourself to them and then trust me you'll feel great and happy that someone guides you and listens to you :)00|00|0- Show AllShow Less
well in that case , if your not going to open up to express yourself then you'll start dwelling within yourself, then after sometime negative thoughts will start popping up into your mind , you'll start feeling irritated of your life and instead of expressing and destroying the problem, you'll just make it much worse in your head (because your not telling someone how you feel etc) .. you'll not able to be happy or relaxed.. because your going to build up stress in your mind and believe me, amongst all the diseases in the world, stress is like a cannibal which corrodes a person from the inside.. don't let it happen, just think of a person you can trust, share it with him or her.. it can be anyone , not just family members or best friends, anyone.. remember there are great people out in the world whom love to guide people the right way.. just believe in yourself.. strength comes from expressing, not from dwelling
well honestly, it's never late for anything.. and I understand that they can't help you out with your problem because no one knows the problem better than you, I completely understand that.. but how about you brainstorm on asking your yourself a simple question " how can I end the problem " and then you can think different ways and check them if it's the correct way or not , then you can think of another way to try it.. listen , don't lose hope.. your a strong girl and your unique in your own way.. just keep on trying, don't give up.. life is full of sacrifices and compromises , I know you can do it , you just need motivation and courage, believe me when I say this
I understand, but hey don't think like that.. I know reality can be bitter many times, I cry sometimes too honestly, I'm not afraid to say it because crying is natural, it happens.. but let's think of a way to solve this problem :) .. let's hunt down the root of the problem :)
I mean let's end the problem so that you can feel relaxed and be happy :) .. alright so you were telling me that a large group of bullies are irrtating you constantly, so how do they irritate you? do they say bad things? or do they push or hurt you?
Alright I completely understand , so here's a few steps you need to take:
1. if guys and girls are verbally agressive and they threat you, you need to do 2 things.. one is to talk to the principal about such things.. tell him/her the whole story, trust me your principal will take a strong action and will bring such bullies to a halt.. secondly, you need to tell your parents about the occurrences happening within class so they can also talk to the principal
2. if a girl says to you " oh he likes you and he wants to take you out " and just try to be fake friends with you , just give them a positive reply saying that " hey I understand that but my first priority is to focus on my studies and enjoy my life plus when the time is right then I'll get a great boyfriend " :)you just need to be confident :) .. that's all.. plus when anyone says anything rude , just say politely " I know how I am, you don't need to worry about my aspects or traits " :)
heyyyyy , your not wasting my time at all.. we humans need to give each other humanity and humanity has a portion of helping out one another :) .. Alright, just whenever anyone says to you anything rude just say " don't worry I know myself well " .. don't be scared.. such people are taking advantage of you being scared.. don't let it happen, trust me.. just give them polite replies , it might piss them off but they won't be able to say or do anything, believe me when I say that
listen here's something you must know , sometimes you can't win a war by attacking directly or by anger.. sometimes smart and intelligent ways are important too.. I'm just telling a smart way in which you won't have any quarrels with any person, it might sound irritating at first but then later on you'll understand the flow of this smart technique :) .. hope you've heard the song " Kill them with Kindness by Selena Gomez " , it's exactly the same, kill the people with kindness :) .. that's maturity :)
my pleasure :) .. and don't think that your wasting me time , I'm gladly available to guide anyone :) .. it's something every human must do :) .. so don't worry :)
NetherSlayermho 11%try to be more conscious about how much of ur emotions go to who and what, try to be more honest with yourself. and definitely be more open or have someone to speak ur mind to. I'm always open to talk, just on different apps lol. PM here isn't the best
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Learn to spot in advance when your feelings risk going out of control, and take a distance at the right moment.
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Browneye57mho 13%Understand that that is all it is - just feelings. Women as a whole tend to put too much stock in their roller-coaster of feelings, that everyone should know about them. Consider it's just your feelings, nothing more.
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Peachmanmho 13%1. its better to be unemotional eg for some reason I can't cry unless I literally force myself two (havent proven it yet but I haven't cried in like 4 years)
2. probably just rethink things before you react and look at the bigger picture00|00|0
DizzyAstermho 6%Learn coping mechanisms, like breathing techniques when the feeling arises.
But ultimately, you need to find the source of your feelings and take ownership of them.00|00|0
StElmosFiremho 0%well, first, I think you have to make a conscious effort to not react to things
and to think through your reactions to events that take place.
and that's the key, thinking of things as just a sequence of events that have a comic value. true maturity is when you could laugh at your misery and smile like a fool.00|00|0- Show AllShow Less
It's brave to have emotions, I've bottled them up myself for the better part of a decade, heralded by three suicide attempts and backbreaking depression.
But at the end, it just screws you over, the key is to find a healthy outlet for these (very natural) emotions.
You're asking for a solution to a problem that I don't think should be thought of as a problem at the first place, express these emotions in a meaningful way (definitely not through your Facebook wall ;))You don't have to go around telling people, that's not what I meant anyway.
maybe immersion in Art helps, it worked for me. what is your MBTI type?
(take a MBTI test if you don't know what that is)DARN, does the type description make any sense to you? because it offers you plenty of stuff to think through.
INFPs are very intuitive and very feeling oriented, and have the potential to create art through poetry. There's an INFP group on Facebook you could connect with..
EdirneCigerimho 3%Oh sometimes im being emotional person , but then im wtihning the "Real life" . Thats makine me so serious after than
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bibi3pumho 0%thats not a issue, being selfish and emotional is the issue. just think of others and when your emotional outbursts hurts others stop yourself and apologize
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SSSasuke_mho 0%Honestly, i cannot say that you can keep it under control, its just gonna get worse as you grow older, after getting "burnt" for a while you begin to adapt. My only advice is to just get used to it
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What Girls Said 7
CubsterShuramho 12%Honey I'm highly emotional too.
Everything has a good side and a bad side so use your emotions for good things like being compassionate and empathetic, and avoid overreacting although I myself also end up doing it at times lol. In case you're afraid you're getting overly emotional that might get things worse, avoid talking more. Sometimes when I'll overly angry, I whisper curse words in foreign languages to relieve myself without making a drama.
Do what works best for you and never let your emotions be your weakness. Stay strong a love yourself the way you are. :)00|00|0
Leahleah4444mho 10%I have the same issue but I guess you just have to learn not to take everything so seriously. If you hear an insult about you, ignore it and remind yourself about your positive qualities. Basically whenever you feel yourself getting overly sensitive and sad think of something really happy and positive. Also, think about it this way. Whenever I start to get really emotional about something I think to myself "is this life threatening? Is this something that's going to affect me in 10 years? 20?" And usually it's something that's not. Like if someone says something behind my back it hurts and I'll get anxiety and act different around my friends and get emotional. But then I think "in ten years is one thing someone said about me going to impact my life still?" And then it makes it a little easier to get over it
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lovelyhoneybonesmho 12%It's called hormones, they get mellowed out in a few years.
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Whenever you find yourself getting emotional, you can stop that behavior and then soon enough you'll stop being that way. You have to work on yourself.
Machiavellimho 13%xanax
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Oh my God you are 14, I didn't see that, I was kidding and I don't mean that I was trolling. You are young it's okay.
Sign of innocence, I was the same and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I once cried when my kindergarten friend left for school without me, and I hated him and cried all the way to school alone, plus we got fake marriage when we were 5. It's not a big deal, you're a girl.
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