Most Helpful Guy
- Mujtaba6661 Xper mho 31%
I understand, I am also a very emotional person (being a male) and that's is not considered a good thing in the society, but hey society doesn't rule your life, you rule your own life :) .. I've learned that before reacting to anything (whether it makes you sad or hurt or angry), a person needs to think why or how did such thing happen? and then find the root of the problem related to it and destroy it.. don't dwell into it.. I used to dwell into it and it just made me kept thinking and I started self-pitying.. but not Everytime your wrong, so first think of why it did happen, if it did happen because of a reason related to you then I suggest you talk about it with that person directly, but if it has nothing to do with you then you stay calm and enjoy every moment of your life :) .. it's simple.. there's a saying that " we humans, tend to make things:
1. Complicated
OR
2. Simple
the choice is yours.. "
And also find a person to talk to like family members or a best friend that you can trust.. talk to them, express yourself to them and then trust me you'll feel great and happy that someone guides you and listens to you :)00|00|0- Show AllShow Less
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
well in that case , if your not going to open up to express yourself then you'll start dwelling within yourself, then after sometime negative thoughts will start popping up into your mind , you'll start feeling irritated of your life and instead of expressing and destroying the problem, you'll just make it much worse in your head (because your not telling someone how you feel etc) .. you'll not able to be happy or relaxed.. because your going to build up stress in your mind and believe me, amongst all the diseases in the world, stress is like a cannibal which corrodes a person from the inside.. don't let it happen, just think of a person you can trust, share it with him or her.. it can be anyone , not just family members or best friends, anyone.. remember there are great people out in the world whom love to guide people the right way.. just believe in yourself.. strength comes from expressing, not from dwelling
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
well honestly, it's never late for anything.. and I understand that they can't help you out with your problem because no one knows the problem better than you, I completely understand that.. but how about you brainstorm on asking your yourself a simple question " how can I end the problem " and then you can think different ways and check them if it's the correct way or not , then you can think of another way to try it.. listen , don't lose hope.. your a strong girl and your unique in your own way.. just keep on trying, don't give up.. life is full of sacrifices and compromises , I know you can do it , you just need motivation and courage, believe me when I say this
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
I understand, but hey don't think like that.. I know reality can be bitter many times, I cry sometimes too honestly, I'm not afraid to say it because crying is natural, it happens.. but let's think of a way to solve this problem :) .. let's hunt down the root of the problem :)
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
I mean let's end the problem so that you can feel relaxed and be happy :) .. alright so you were telling me that a large group of bullies are irrtating you constantly, so how do they irritate you? do they say bad things? or do they push or hurt you?
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
Alright I completely understand , so here's a few steps you need to take:
1. if guys and girls are verbally agressive and they threat you, you need to do 2 things.. one is to talk to the principal about such things.. tell him/her the whole story, trust me your principal will take a strong action and will bring such bullies to a halt.. secondly, you need to tell your parents about the occurrences happening within class so they can also talk to the principal
2. if a girl says to you " oh he likes you and he wants to take you out " and just try to be fake friends with you , just give them a positive reply saying that " hey I understand that but my first priority is to focus on my studies and enjoy my life plus when the time is right then I'll get a great boyfriend " :) - Mujtaba6661 Xper
you just need to be confident :) .. that's all.. plus when anyone says anything rude , just say politely " I know how I am, you don't need to worry about my aspects or traits " :)
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
heyyyyy , your not wasting my time at all.. we humans need to give each other humanity and humanity has a portion of helping out one another :) .. Alright, just whenever anyone says to you anything rude just say " don't worry I know myself well " .. don't be scared.. such people are taking advantage of you being scared.. don't let it happen, trust me.. just give them polite replies , it might piss them off but they won't be able to say or do anything, believe me when I say that
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
listen here's something you must know , sometimes you can't win a war by attacking directly or by anger.. sometimes smart and intelligent ways are important too.. I'm just telling a smart way in which you won't have any quarrels with any person, it might sound irritating at first but then later on you'll understand the flow of this smart technique :) .. hope you've heard the song " Kill them with Kindness by Selena Gomez " , it's exactly the same, kill the people with kindness :) .. that's maturity :)
- Mujtaba6661 Xper
my pleasure :) .. and don't think that your wasting me time , I'm gladly available to guide anyone :) .. it's something every human must do :) .. so don't worry :)
Most Helpful Girl
- CubsterShura9 Xper mho 13%
Honey I'm highly emotional too.
Everything has a good side and a bad side so use your emotions for good things like being compassionate and empathetic, and avoid overreacting although I myself also end up doing it at times lol. In case you're afraid you're getting overly emotional that might get things worse, avoid talking more. Sometimes when I'll overly angry, I whisper curse words in foreign languages to relieve myself without making a drama.
Do what works best for you and never let your emotions be your weakness. Stay strong a love yourself the way you are. :)00|00|0
Thanks one question tho? What if I just refuse to open up about anything?