I HATE my small boobs?

I have really small boobs. My chest is not completely flat but I can't fill out a 32A and it bothers me so much. My boyfriend is obsessed with my butt and he says he loves my boobs but I just can't see it and I hate them. How do I deal with this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • How constructive is it for you to hate your boobs? Who does it help? Does it make them grow? No. Okay, so who does it hurt? Well, you. You are wasting negative energy on something that won't change and you are only hurting yourself in doing so. Which is entirely pointless. You don't have to immediately start loving your breasts but why not just agree to stop being so harsh about them. Stop hating them. Leave them alone. Maybe even defend them!

    As for your boyfriend, accept that his opinion is his opinion, it's not your opinion. You are biased against yourself, he is not. Besides which, we all have different tastes. Not only that but some of us have wide ranging tastes anyway, we appreciate variety. If every girl had big tits then big tits wouldn't even be a thing. Variety is a good thing, it makes life interesting and surprising.

  • You're allowed to like what you like. But if you're imagining all guys like large boobs you're just wrong. The most popular size is medium. About 40% of guys like medium best. Then about 30% each prefer large and small.

    So a good 30% of men actually like small breasts the -best-

    And that's focusing on size. About half of men -across all the size preferences - care very little about breast size at all. This doesn't mean they don't like them. It just means the size doesn't have much impact in how much they like them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't have boobs up to my chin either which used to bother me but I learned to accept it. Focus on your positive traits and highlight them. You have a great butt and legs? Work out to make them look even better and dress to show them off. If you don't feel feminine with the size of your chest, fake it. There are dudes out there that can fake having cleavage. If they can do it, so can you.
    I don't have double D's but it has never hindered me. Guys are still attracted to me, they still approach me, I still got signed by a modelling agency. I'm not saying this to boast, I'm saying this to show you that there's a lot more to attraction than the size of your chest.

  • Do squats for your butt and other exercises that will make it big, as for boobs, there's foods to eat like onions and tomatoes that are said to help make them bigger. Also try sleeping without a bra overnight, I heard that works to help make boobs grow. Lastly, appreciate and learn to love your body for the way it is and to not even have to depend on hearing how it looks good or not from anyone else

  • I know how you feel. I remember being your age and hating my small boobs. But seriously, when you get a little older, you will learn to love them, trust me. You can wear so many cute tops that bustier girls cannot!

    • Thanks for MHO :)

    • you are welcome!

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  • I have smaller ones, and I like it. My friends who have bigger ones often complain, as they hurt

  • Well, the breasts I get when searching for that size looks just great.
    I don't think you need to worry about yours not being able to quite fill those out...
    Especially not at your age,

  • Hey, don't feel bad.
    I found out that a guy I fancy doesn't like big boobs and prefers small ones

    Little does he know I have beautiful, perky breasts. Muahahaha... it still bothers me though

    So, the bat swings both ways

  • guys love all boobs, mine are really uneven and no guy i've met has had a problem with it.

  • I love small tits!

  • Same lmfao

  • Maybe you're petite, which can be attractive to some guys.

  • omg i love small boobs! my ex was the same way, don't feel bad just love yourself.

  • stop critizing yourself and just let him love you!!! lmao

  • I love my gfs A's

  • Listen to your boyfriend.

  • For every variety or size of body parts a girl has, there will be guys who love that.

  • You Need To Love Yourself. It doesn't matter if your boyfriend loves your ass or not, you have to love you.

  • Realize that plenty of guys like small boobs. Your boyfriend seems to be included in this number.

  • guys just like boobs , no matter the size really

  • Honestly for me being a French guy a breast that could fit in a Champaign glass would be just fine. Anything extreme beyond that would be so American and out of proportion. Best of luck to you girl. by the way body type matters too. I have seen 5 ft chubby girls walking around with double x d's. With tight pants and her flab hanging out the sides.

  • You're just not ready for all this. Irrational fears and emotions.

  • You wait. Any girl on here old enough will tell you you'll change. Probably

  • I hate my fucked up face, but the difference is that you can change that, I have a own this.

    • You are doing it again,,, you are a cutie,, so stop already

  • While you are hating them I will be loving them.

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