And how did you cope with it?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. I am your fellow indian by the way and these are the incidents-
1) In 10th grade i liked a girl, I kissed her arse for about a year, I thought i was in love but she always wanted to be friends with me. She did talk a lot to me though (because of my personality) but when it came to dating, She always said no (I asked her out three times over an interval of 3 months). She didn't even hang out with me in real life, But she texted me a lot. Fast forward to 11th grade, She changes schools and she tells me about this cute guy who catches her eyes. The guy is a model by the way. And WITHIN A WEEK of talking to him, SHE asks HIM out. That was the time i realised it was my looks, And then i started asking people how did i look? Most of the time the answer was average to ugly.
2) While i was asking these people about my looks, The things which happened to me were soul shattering. So many women skipped me on omegle/chatroulette after typing ew. I snapchatted this one chick and asked her if she would like to rate my face for me? She says ok. I snap her my face and she blocks me. Also most of my friends are really good looking (Above 6ft in height and they're ripped and their faces have harmony-Most of my friends look italian/ spanish) so it's horrible for me when girls take active interest in them, This one time we had a french exchange in our school. Around 10 french girls came here and 4 of my friends hooked-up with them. They got action because they were good looking. I don't even approach women these days because what's the point? Your looks come into play sooner or later.
3) I met this girl i used to date in 8th grade after 4 years. She tells me,"Dude! You kinda look good now" i'm like "Didn't i always looked good?" She's like," Not when i was dating you but i don't go on looks so..."
4) One of my friends had a one night stand with this fat indian whale (ugly lookwise) and that made me so jealous of him. He has nothing going for him except his looks (looks like a white model) but he is damn good looking. Also, This fat indian whale used to pick him up in her car and drop him off in her car. (She is 25 and he is 20)
Trust me, Below average men have it worse AND i am still insecure, Been working out to cope but it doesn't work that way i suppose, A ruined face is a ruined face. Been keeping myself busy these days, Girls are not goals and i don't care much about them now. I have been keeping it to myself these days, i just wanna do some good in this world now.
Most Helpful Girl
Omg yes. I went to a University last year and hated it. It wasn't the school necessarily, it was the people and what I had experienced. I would've went to the school not knowing anybody [which is what I wish would've happened) and I ended up getting in group messages and getting a boyfriend. Didn't last long enough to get to school and when it came time to spend time with the people in the g. m, they'd either be fake, drama filled, too loud, too wild, or just not my type of people so I'd distance myself from them and they'd take it the wrong way. This happened with 3 different groups that had at least 25 people in them so now have the freshman class either don't like me or have something bad to say. With my ex, he really was the nail in the coffin because we tried being friends a few months after the break up and he caused more issues for me because he was overly open about the things he did while we weren't together [he had no intention on getting back with me so I don't know why he told me in the first place] anyways, he had sex with a girl and told me the story but didn't tell me the truth and they were still "cool" and she was being petty which caused me to go crazy. I had few friends at the time, which was fine with me, but when this happened, I saw I had less friends than I thought, so many people were against me including my ex. He was basically adding fuel to the fire and it was all because of him. I was so unhappy at that school and I only really was close to 2
People because we had work study together.
Things didn't turn around for me until the summer when I went back home and I got myself together, now I'm happier than ever and I'm not going back to that school for a lot of reasons. I was broken at the time, the entire semester I wasn't happy. Negative things were happening left and right1