Like, if a guy wanted to date, what are the chances that he'll just choose any random girl he thinks he can get? Also, do you think guys on the internet tend to message anyone as long as they're listed as "female?" Not trying to be rude to the thoughtful, emotional, good guys.. I know you guys exist... somewhere.
Most Helpful Guy
A lot of guys do that - and it's actually a winning strategy.
Dating is ALWAYS a number's game - the chances of both people feeling attraction to each other is small, so you have to meet/ask out a lot of people to find another that is interested in you back (much less one that is ALSO compatible!). By running up the numbers - asking out every girl who is remotely attractive to him - he gets used to rejection and not letting it bother him (he may even learn to turn a rejection into a date!), and he'll meet enough girls that it won't take too long before he gets a "yes" answer.
A *LOT* of guys barely ask out one girl a year - some guys may go years without asking a girl out - and so, when they DO ask, they usually don't ask a stranger, but rather they ask a girl they've been looking at from afar and pining away at them for months or longer. They'll have built that girl up as "perfect" in their minds, and when she rejects him (as most commonly happens), it will be such a huge disappointment and humiliation that he won't ask another girl out for a year or more. That's a HORRIBLE strategy, because you aren't meeting enough women to be likely to find a good match - but that's still what a lot of guys do.
Players and womanizers are successful because they ask out tons of girls - and get rejected a lot and quickly learn NOT TO CARE about rejection - and that makes them CONFIDENT, and women respond positively to confidence. Some will still reject him, but his percentage of "yes" answers will go up as his confidence grows - sometimes WAY up. So not only is he asking out a lot of girls, he's getting a lot of "yes" answers too, and may even date multiple girls at the same time.0
Most Helpful Girl
yes to teh internet stuff..
some guys will ask out any girl, esp if they look like they dont have a lot of selfesteem or confidence.
Guys that are players can spot a Needy girl really fast..
All they want is sex... still, it is nice to get asked out even if it is just a random guy..0