I'm quite submissive person and I like putting happiness of people I care about before mine. Being indecisive at times, I also appreciate if other person (my partner, for example) takes charge and guides me to a decision.
However I have been told that this thing is not right and that a relationship is supposed to be equal.
Especially by few friends of mine and such.
Is that a bad thing?
Most Helpful Guy
Not at ALL!
Just make sure that the person you submit to, is someone that you can trust!
in my opinion most women are the most happy in relationships, when they simultaneously submit to their man (as in letting the man be his natural role of leader), AND have full trust in him.
Unfortunately most women submit to untrustworthy men!3
Most Helpful Girl
If you're changing your core beliefs to make someone else happy, it's bad. One of my friends asks her boyfriend for fashion advice and eats kosher because he said it's right. She doesn't agree with everything he says, but it's like pulling teeth to make her admit it. You don't want to be that girl. The right guy won't like that. The wrong one will take advantage of you.2