I know if people knew my biggest mistakes or secrets people would not think the same of me, what about you?
If you revealed your biggest secret/mistake, would people think of you differently?
What Girls Said 15
No. They'd admire me more , coz they'd see my strength and adaptability through my biggest secret . They'd realise how resilient I am. They know I'm not just a survivor in life , but a God damn warrior 😜0
Yes, absolutely. It would probably change the way people think about me and act around me.0
Not just differently, but very negatively. It'd make life a lot harder to get through. I think a lot of my friends would drop me.0
I think people would be shocked and it would raise a few eyebrows, a few might look see me differently.0
Yea, that's why i keep some stuff to myself. And it'll stay that way.2
I don't think so. I would hope not anyway.0
yes... I think...0
if someone told me their deepens secret id take it as a compliment and be glad im a safe person, no matter the secret id always be there~~0
I think people would definitly.0
yes they wouldn't think highly of me that's for sure0
It depends on the person you tell0
I people would probably think there's something wrong with me and wouldn't want to be near me or be friends with me and I don't take that kind of stuff lightly0
What Guys Said 30
It wouldn't if you were considered a real asshole sometimes. Depending on who you talk to it might not make you look bad. I've been a football player my whole life a varsity Stud now I'm less shallow& more helpful. I'm honest and that might mislead a few girls especially if im trying to get them to hang out or go out.
If more people knew me
Knew the diff in me they wouldn't mind, I really was a mean bully, undefeated wrestler. Some mma undefeated. If I got my ass kcked earlier in life i wouldn't be mean but i was an athlete with special treatment.
From a classy well known family, if you know football you'll remember some of my family, (Dad & uncle's)
Most people have me think of football and why i no longer wanted to play they ask me and I give them a story.
Yeah it would change me then. Thats the only way I know bc my cousin's all Did the same thing I did.
There's 9 boys 9 boy cousins I'm the youngest 1 who didn't play football... didn't make it to the NFL and stopped pursuing a career in it.
I understand what you're saying. I lost all my friend's even the girls I still wanted to date I looked at new people
Made new friends got it taken care of early.
If i didn't I'd be feeling less confident and would always wonder why I never said anything. It would eat me up.0
i don't think so. i'm a fairly open book. perhaps people see me differently simply because good or bad learning something new about someone can cause you to view them differently but (as i assume you mean it) i don't think there is anything i could tell most people who know that would make me see them in a negative light0
I'll just say mine, even though I have been vocal about it here... I am a 32 year old virgin and think my life is over because of it, since in this day and age; who would seriously want a relstioonship with someone (me, a male) who has not had any experience... =(0
Hmm most likely I don't even bother hiding it anymore since I stopped trying to care about what others think.0
Probably, because of negative social stigmatas.0
Beyond a shadow of a doubt. We're all a lot worse than we let on, and if people knew everything we've thought and done then we really would be alone0
Gosh... every one will look at me differently.. I'm the silent type but I have a lot of dark secrets. I once tricked this girl into breaking up with her boyfriend because he smacked me. That's just a little bit of the things I've done to people since people take advantage of me because I'm quiet. They don't know - quiet people are the deadliest0
yes I'd be in jail and be disowned by my family and maybe lose half of my friends0
Yes and I never will to anyone one that doesn't need to know or know already.0
Yes and there are secrets we will take to our grave because of it.0
Yes absolutely. I would end up more or less without a family anymore for a start, which is why I've grown up sneaky, learnt how to hide things from a worryingly young age0
Definitely they will think different if it is strong enough to change their feelings and few will think you are joking.0
They would solve the eternal "are we alone?" question.0
I know one person wouldn't0
Probably. I can be kind of a social manipulator and I doubt people would want to hang out with me if they knew how bad I can get sometimes.0
Mistakes =/= Secrets but still in my case it'll be waaay different0
Nah, I'm open about my failures0
Yes, my second and first families wouldn't appreciate it0
I don't care what anyone thinks. Learn from my error0
No secrets to hide still... m glad.0
They certainly would, that's why secrets remain secrets.0
It depends on the secret and on the person to whom U told and your relations with he or she0
Hell yes! People are judgmental af anyway0
Hell yes. They would never believe the capacity for wrong doing I possess..0
Omg I'd have to move to a new area0
Very much so, and usually when someone found out they freaked the f' out.0
I would be revealed as Evil Incarnate...0
Some would never treat me the same, but others would probably be impressed. I wouldn't lose any friends over it, anyone who matters to me knows already. I hate keeping things from people, but really it's no ones business but my own. I just feel the need to be open and honest with people I care for about my situation.0
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