If you revealed your biggest secret/mistake, would people think of you differently?

I know if people knew my biggest mistakes or secrets people would not think the same of me, what about you?


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  • No. They'd admire me more , coz they'd see my strength and adaptability through my biggest secret . They'd realise how resilient I am. They know I'm not just a survivor in life , but a God damn warrior 😜

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  • It wouldn't if you were considered a real asshole sometimes. Depending on who you talk to it might not make you look bad. I've been a football player my whole life a varsity Stud now I'm less shallow& more helpful. I'm honest and that might mislead a few girls especially if im trying to get them to hang out or go out.
    If more people knew me
    Knew the diff in me they wouldn't mind, I really was a mean bully, undefeated wrestler. Some mma undefeated. If I got my ass kcked earlier in life i wouldn't be mean but i was an athlete with special treatment.
    From a classy well known family, if you know football you'll remember some of my family, (Dad & uncle's)
    Most people have me think of football and why i no longer wanted to play they ask me and I give them a story.

    Yeah it would change me then. Thats the only way I know bc my cousin's all Did the same thing I did.
    There's 9 boys 9 boy cousins I'm the youngest 1 who didn't play football... didn't make it to the NFL and stopped pursuing a career in it.
    I understand what you're saying. I lost all my friend's even the girls I still wanted to date I looked at new people
    Made new friends got it taken care of early.

    If i didn't I'd be feeling less confident and would always wonder why I never said anything. It would eat me up.

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What Girls Said 14

  • Yes, absolutely. It would probably change the way people think about me and act around me.

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  • Not just differently, but very negatively. It'd make life a lot harder to get through. I think a lot of my friends would drop me.

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  • Probably

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  • I think people would be shocked and it would raise a few eyebrows, a few might look see me differently.

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  • I don't think so. I would hope not anyway.

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  • Yea, that's why i keep some stuff to myself. And it'll stay that way.

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  • Absolutely

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  • I've never done any shady stuff , so I don't think anyone will look at me differently

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  • It depends on the person you tell

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  • yes... I think...

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  • if someone told me their deepens secret id take it as a compliment and be glad im a safe person, no matter the secret id always be there~~

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  • I think people would definitly.

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  • yes they wouldn't think highly of me that's for sure

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  • I people would probably think there's something wrong with me and wouldn't want to be near me or be friends with me and I don't take that kind of stuff lightly

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What Guys Said 29

  • i don't think so. i'm a fairly open book. perhaps people see me differently simply because good or bad learning something new about someone can cause you to view them differently but (as i assume you mean it) i don't think there is anything i could tell most people who know that would make me see them in a negative light

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  • Probably, because of negative social stigmatas.

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  • Beyond a shadow of a doubt. We're all a lot worse than we let on, and if people knew everything we've thought and done then we really would be alone

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  • Hmm most likely I don't even bother hiding it anymore since I stopped trying to care about what others think.

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  • I'll just say mine, even though I have been vocal about it here... I am a 32 year old virgin and think my life is over because of it, since in this day and age; who would seriously want a relstioonship with someone (me, a male) who has not had any experience... =(

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  • Gosh... every one will look at me differently.. I'm the silent type but I have a lot of dark secrets. I once tricked this girl into breaking up with her boyfriend because he smacked me. That's just a little bit of the things I've done to people since people take advantage of me because I'm quiet. They don't know - quiet people are the deadliest

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  • Yes and I never will to anyone one that doesn't need to know or know already.

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  • Yes absolutely. I would end up more or less without a family anymore for a start, which is why I've grown up sneaky, learnt how to hide things from a worryingly young age

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  • Yes, my second and first families wouldn't appreciate it

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  • Definitely they will think different if it is strong enough to change their feelings and few will think you are joking.

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  • They would solve the eternal "are we alone?" question.

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  • I know one person wouldn't

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  • Probably. I can be kind of a social manipulator and I doubt people would want to hang out with me if they knew how bad I can get sometimes.

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  • Nah, I'm open about my failures

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  • Mistakes =/= Secrets but still in my case it'll be waaay different

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  • Hell yes. They would never believe the capacity for wrong doing I possess..

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  • yes I'd be in jail and be disowned by my family and maybe lose half of my friends

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  • Yes and there are secrets we will take to our grave because of it.

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  • Very much so, and usually when someone found out they freaked the f' out.

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  • Yep.

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  • I don't care what anyone thinks. Learn from my error

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  • No secrets to hide still... m glad.

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  • They certainly would, that's why secrets remain secrets.

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  • It depends on the secret and on the person to whom U told and your relations with he or she

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  • Be yourself,

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  • Hell yes! People are judgmental af anyway

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  • Omg I'd have to move to a new area

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  • I would be revealed as Evil Incarnate...

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  • Some would never treat me the same, but others would probably be impressed. I wouldn't lose any friends over it, anyone who matters to me knows already. I hate keeping things from people, but really it's no ones business but my own. I just feel the need to be open and honest with people I care for about my situation.

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