- My Looks
- My Intelligence
- My Social Skills
- My Athletic Ability
- Other (comment)
Most Helpful Guy
I voted " My looks ".
I don't have any insecurity. As the matter of fact i'm a very confidential and optimistic person. I always accept myself and just try to take the best out of myself. However i wish some physical characteristics could be a little different. Not with sorrow and sadness but just randomly.
1. Height 2. Eyebrows 3. Hand/Wrist
I personally believe it's more suitable when men stand higher than women. Even tho height doesn't determine ability, mentality, talent nor capabilities and achievements. Still i believe traditionally and biologically it's more suitable when men stand higher in terms of height. So being 5'8 doesn't entirely satisfy me. But as i have said, it's okay. I have zero control over this so i'm who i am as i suppose to be.
I have tick eyebrows. I don't know sometimes i feel it was better if it's been thinner. Not really a big deal. Just an occasional thought.
I have medium to small size hands and wrist. Again; i believe it's more suitable if men have thick and big hands. Despite the fact that my hands proven pretty strengthened and stubborn. It's just about the look it's skinny and it would be just better if my hand had ticker layers of flesh and bone structure.
And finally; maybe a little of athletic ability.
I've been through a tough period of time in terms of mentality, during that time i lost many life's opportunities which i had no control over them. Then my diet got messed up and i gained few pounds. So i bounced back but at this moment i feel still i don't have the fitness and physical preparedness i used to have. I just wish i could control it then. But still i have good amount of time ahead of me to return. But since you spoke of wish as well, this could fit. I wish i was better already but what happens just happens. So i keep moving forward to improve and be the way i wish to be.
Most Helpful Girl
Definitely my intelligence. I can control to a point my appearance (what I wear, how my hair looks, my make-up) and my social skills come from my personality which I also feel pretty much just makes up... me! i could also work out more if I chose to, but frankly I have no interest in my athletic ability.
But the one thing I can't control is my intelligence, as we're each born with a certain level of comprehension. Sure I could study more to do better in school, but that's just the thing-- I would need to put in the extra effort. It doesn't always come naturally.
That's why I'm most insecure about my intelligence... because for the most part I can't control it. And if I'm lacking, there's not a whole lot I can do to change it, and therefore I question if I'm simply stupid and there's something wrong with me beyond my control.1