Do average women *really* have it easy in dating, compared average men?

in my opinion, if you are average or below average woman, you have it as difficult as average/below average man out there. I know it from my experience.

It may be different in case of good looking/above average people. Good looking women definitely have an upper hand compared to good looking men.

But if you are average or below average, it's same.
Do you agree? Why?


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  • I think a lot of MEN will disagree with you because of their lack of experience with interacting with women and obviously not being a woman themselves. I've had extensive experience with women directly and indirectly and I can tell you that BOTH average men and women have it about the same when it comes to ease in DATING. Notice how I stressed the word DATING and not who can hookup with random faster than the other, because we all know women can do that easier or faster than men usually can. It's a reality that many men are oblivious to because they're equating a woman being able to get random hookups easier to women being able to date easier as well. I think men conflict the two. I personally believe women can get sex easier, men can get commitment easier. Meaning, women have a harder time getting commitment from a guy they want commitment from as compared to a man being able to get commitment from a woman they want commitment from. Why? Women are pickier.

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  • I agree but I think it is easier for a woman that is considered average or below average to get better than it is for a man that is average or below average.

    Since I believe a lot of the physical attraction that a man has for a female is in her body and since a woman's body/weight/fitness is in her control, a woman can increase her attraction to the opposite sex more than a man can.

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What Guys Said 40

  • Okay, first of all: I wish people would quit this dumb categorization of "below average", "above average" etc.. That's just silly.

    That said, I believe that women do have it easier when it comes to finding a guy to have no-strings-attached sex with. For all other matters, such as serious dating, women have it just as hard as men.

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  • Women have easier access to sex and less access to committed relationships generally. A lot of guys will be with a girl to have sex when they don't plan to be serious. Many men perceive dating as hard because they usually have to initiate and therefore take the "risk" of being rejected which hurts many guys. I think women have a hard time finding what they want though. Probably just as much or more than men.

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  • I would say they certainly do, because even the most average woman is highly desired.
    And that desirability provides them an option to be choosy.

    On the other hand, my experience as just an average man has made dating more often than not an empty effort, likely not even worth pursuing.

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  • In the dating world, it depends on the type or demographic of guys or girls.

    Black guys have it easier than black girls.

    Bisexual girls have it much, much easier than bi guys.

    Asian girls have it much easier than Asian guys.

    White male expats in Asian countries have it much easier than white female expats in Asian countries. White females have it much easier in places like Detroit or Minnesota, or other places where the population is very heavily black, then white men.

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  • No. I've seen plenty of average to under average women in relationships. I'm average to ugly and have yet to be given a chance at all.

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What Girls Said 13

  • Average women definitely have it easier until they’re 30-35 then men start to, providing they have some form of stable job and independence

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  • I agree. Average looking females don't have anything easy. We have about the same chances as average looking men. We just aren't always bitching and complaining about it.

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  • Average women have it easier because:

    1. They get accepted by his friends, family more.

    2. Men think they are low maintenance

    3. Feel less shy

    4. Feel like they don't have much competition

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  • I think you also need to factor in race and disabilities. You'd be surprised at how much attention good looking men also receive. People like good looking people, regardless of gender.

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  • I'm above average but I struggle to date because of my personality.

    And I know many girls who are not prettier than me but still more desirable.

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