Have you ever seen a good looking person being isolated or bullied?
Do attractive people get bullied?
Yes, absolutely. This kind of behavior happens a lot more often with women than men but as a good looking cute quiet guy I also got bullied all throughout my life. It wasn't physical bullying but I often got ostracisized by my peers during lunch, class, or gym. It's funny because whenever I was with girls or talk to girls they are so friendly and smiley because they aren't jealous of my looks like guys are. What I say to you is to make more guy friends than girls or find girl friends that aren't 2 faced or jealous it may be hard but there are girls like that out there. That's why now I don't go out of my way to talk to guys unless they are genuinely nice or don't care about looks and like me for who I am. I do however talk to the ladies ;).
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No.
I got bullied by such persons during my whole life. Ok "good looking" is a rather personal thing. Maybe someone out there thinks that I do look good then the answer would be "yes".
But I can't believe people who say "you look good" to me. Because I was bullied by girls (and boys who wanted to "impress " these girls) for my appearance.
Bullying comes in all forms, just because they aren't cornered and taunted , shoved into lockers, etcetera doesn't mean they do not get bullied. Every rumor you hear , is bullying, every rude comment posted on there page, is bullying. They have insecurities too. They have people who don't like them. Being pretty or handsome does not shield you from others disapproval and spite.
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Bullying is often due to a different appearance, because it's the easiest thing to grasp, but attractive people can get bullied for example different behavioral patterns or dissenting opinions.
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Bullies enjoy bullying a person
I'm sure they don't consider the attractiveness of a person beforehand. -
I did get bullied on my whole schooling and even by jalousy of my "attractiveness" and "humor". But really, it's just a random reason to get bullied, because at this point, everything i'd do, would be a good excuse to get bullied...
And i didn't see any bullying on the girls side, even for the prettiest ones.
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It does happen, but not as often. Sad truth is that people considered ugly, like myself, appear as easy targets for bullies.
Let me take this opportunity to say, if you are being bullied, speak to someone. Be it a loved one or friend, the main thing is you're not alone, and it's dangerous to bury feelings of hurt. If you have no one to talk to, try your school counselor, or government helplines. -
They sure do.. Attractive people get bullied for being attractive.. Maybe someone envies them for the a magnet of the opposite gender.. They'll say he/she thinks she's all that..
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Hot girls bullied by other girls, sure. But I've never seen hot guys being bullied. They're usually pretty confident so take it in their stride I guess if it happens. Less affected than girls.
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Yes. When I was in elementary school and high school I got bullied BECAUSE I was attractive. When I was middle school I got bullied because I was shy and smart.
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Probably not right In their face but behind their back people can be pretty mean. When I was In high school, all my friends talked a lot of crap about the pretty girls. They would even start rumours and lies to give them a bad reputation but that's just jealousy.
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I was bullied my entire school life 🤷🏼♀️ I’m guessing it’s a jealousy thing? I don't know even some girls in my sorority hated me for no reason whatsoever.
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All the time, people act like they do not see it, but everyone here knows it happens a lot. This is why good looking people tend to become loners, mean or hang with their own kind.
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I frequently get left out of things and out of groups because people are "intimidated at first" according to others. It sucks because I'm really shy and self conscious as it is, I don't need added pressure based on my "good looks"(which I don't see anyway).
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I’m not ugly and I got slut shamed all my high school career even though I literally did nothing to deserve it like I’m a virgin still for Pete’s sake! I think that mean/rotten/evil don’t discriminate
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I think good-looking guys are usually the bully and good-looking girls the victims of the bully of other (envious) girls.
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Yes they do, I saw it happen once, because they assumed she would be arrogant. They had something to say about everything she did, but believe me she really wasn't ugly at all. 😅
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yes if they have low self esteem but if they are a confident attractive person most people will be intimidated by them and are less likely to bully them
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Yeah of course they do. Anyone can get bullied for any reason.
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Yes it happens a lot. I used to be insulted a lot for being skinny but then years later I’ve had those people admit they were secretly envious.
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I was. Being attractive didn't stop me from being bullied a lot for wearing glasses. This was in the 90s before Harry Potter etc made glasses socially acceptable
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I got bullied about two girls name Chloe. they were not the hot girls. I have other issue with others girls in past.
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Yes!
The usual cause is that the bulli feel threatened for their beauty (competition) (most common amongst girls).
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Sure. I think in lots of cases, there’s a “tall poppy syndrome “ that makes some people think they have a right to “bring down “ higher achievers of good looking folk to their level.
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