- 0-3 super comfortable
- 4-6 so so
- 7-10 get me outta here!
Most Helpful Guys
I suppose it partly depends on who they are. I'm not terrified of a waitress, or a clerk... I can talk to them. Of course, if they're attractive, that changes (to a point). If they're attractive, it's a bit different.
I have to still put on some small act, though. I can't say stuff the same way (not that what I say is bad). But like I can talk about who I'm interested in with most guy pals. I'm not telling too many girls about any of that. I have to sound cool or be interesting. prove value, more than with guys (still have to do that sometimes, but less so).
I love being around women more than men because I feel a lot more relaxed around them, plus they are more expressive and friendly from my experience anyways. This probably explains why I have a lot more girl friends than guy friends which I'm not sure if this is something to be proud of 😂 I know a lot of people will say gender shouldn't matter but I feel more like myself around women who aren't afraid to open up to personal conversations and are usually very thoughtful as well :)
For a scale rating, I would put a 0 for very comfortable around women! A 7 for guys because they make me feel tense at times :(7
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Most Helpful Girls
I love being around people! I don't view people so much in genders to be honest. I view them as people, interesting at that.
I don't care if I'm the only woman in a room of men; it doesn't scare me, doesn't affect me. Same with women.
What I do notice is the general difference in approach and discussions. Body language. Women's discussions/judgments are more based on a personal level (feeling/approach/looks/behavior), men are more focused on subject/project level (tactics/tips'n'tricks/progress/goal).1