Most Helpful Girls
I voted somewhat cause I started out loving and kind but then was abused mentally and emotionally by my parents and that hardened me up and made me bitter and aggressive and hostile - slowly I softened down a lot - but I can still be impatient and bitter sometimes and have a low tolerance for certain types of people who annoy me whereas in the past - I would have patiently tolerated somebody who was annoying - now I just shut them out whenever possible. I think I am learning to relearn how to love others and feel sympathy for them.
I don't think I am angry, more just annoyed and wish people would know what is right and wrong to say. angry means that you want to do something mean back to them because you are so angry at what they did. Being annoyed just means that you find it wrong what they did, but you don't care that they did it. Not getting angry or annoyed and being happy about it means that you actually LIKED what they did... and approve of it.
Example: Someone just slammed their car into your car and then drove off.
You can either get angry: Try to find that car and slam your car into their car too...
or get annoyed and just call insurance to take care of it or what not.
or get happy about it and feel happy that someone was paying enough attention to you to slam into your car whether it was on purpose or accident.
Most Helpful Guys
I feel like my life has become more difficult in many ways... less carefree.
However, I have actually become milder. I don't feel angry anymore like I did as a teenager. I just kind of let things be. That doesn't mean I'm not interested or they don't affect me but I try to take every blow with dignity and I try hard to see the bright side of life.