Not at all. Being popular is in one sense a curse. You always need to be more and more popular and this can lead to problems and issues because you start competing for popularity with others. That could destroy friendships
Pretty and Popular in School as a Rule because I Mixed and Marched with Everyone under the Sun, hun. Out of School, I continued to Have many Friends but being Popular? I didn't care as Long as Their Respected was There. xx
Nope. If someone and i mean anyone wants to be my friend they can... being popular to me is cool, but its not something i would brag about bc its not what i am aiming in my life. I only aim for honesty, trustworthy, and respect.
No I kinda like to do my own thing and I hate following the crowd and fitting in. I like to be different I will never be popular and I am completely fine with that. Not everyone is going to like me and that's cool...
Honestly if I'm popular it means I'm not saying anything important. I'm not in the business of trying to please everyone so if I'm not pissing anyone off I'm not talking about anything important enough.
nope never have never will... those who I let into my life are all I need, but have to be decent people.. I dont trust easily so all who are in my circle have proven themselves time and again :)
No, Popularity is silly, eventually as you get older it's hard to keep up with everyone and your left over with the people that have been loyal to you x
No, I don't care. AND yes people tend to gravitate towards me... I prefer my small real circle of friends and family. I need to really connect with people in order to have a meaningful and fruitful relationship.
Yes and no. In my work I want to blow everyone away and get paid but I don’t want to the face of it. Like seriously, I’m trying to be as anonymous as possible.
Popularity isn’t really important to me. I’m content with having just a few close friends. I do have a lot of friends but I don’t think I’d consider myself popular.
No. But I do care if I'm loved or not. Everyone should be loved. This life is too short to go around hating others. I personally try to be friendly around others and try to put a smile on their faces. Life would be better if we treated each other with more respect and kindness. I know not everyone wants to do that or would do that, but at least the few of us that do or would can do our part and begin to make this world a better place again - even if it's only a little bit.
No. Other people can go fuck themselves. I know I don't need those people because I'm better than the popular kid and his friends combined
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Never have, never will. Where I'm from (and maybe the rest of the world) you have to act and dress a specific way to be popular and it's just not me and I HATE fake people. So I rather have zero friends than many fake ones.
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Not at all. Being popular is in one sense a curse. You always need to be more and more popular and this can lead to problems and issues because you start competing for popularity with others. That could destroy friendships
Do I care? No.
Am I popular? Maybe?
Depends on your definition of popular. Do people ask about me? Yes.
I was about to justify it by saying I don't get out much, so I'm rare. It dawns on me that isn't exactly true.
Pretty and Popular in School as a Rule because I Mixed and Marched with Everyone under the Sun, hun. Out of School, I continued to Have many Friends but being Popular? I didn't care as Long as Their Respected was There. xx
*Matched. xx
Nope. If someone and i mean anyone wants to be my friend they can... being popular to me is cool, but its not something i would brag about bc its not what i am aiming in my life. I only aim for honesty, trustworthy, and respect.
No I kinda like to do my own thing and I hate following the crowd and fitting in. I like to be different I will never be popular and I am completely fine with that. Not everyone is going to like me and that's cool...
Honestly if I'm popular it means I'm not saying anything important. I'm not in the business of trying to please everyone so if I'm not pissing anyone off I'm not talking about anything important enough.
nope never have never will... those who I let into my life are all I need, but have to be decent people.. I dont trust easily so all who are in my circle have proven themselves time and again :)
No, Popularity is silly, eventually as you get older it's hard to keep up with everyone and your left over with the people that have been loyal to you x
No, I don't care. AND yes people tend to gravitate towards me... I prefer my small real circle of friends and family. I need to really connect with people in order to have a meaningful and fruitful relationship.
Yes and no. In my work I want to blow everyone away and get paid but I don’t want to the face of it. Like seriously, I’m trying to be as anonymous as possible.
Popularity isn’t really important to me. I’m content with having just a few close friends. I do have a lot of friends but I don’t think I’d consider myself popular.
No. But I do care if I'm loved or not. Everyone should be loved. This life is too short to go around hating others. I personally try to be friendly around others and try to put a smile on their faces. Life would be better if we treated each other with more respect and kindness. I know not everyone wants to do that or would do that, but at least the few of us that do or would can do our part and begin to make this world a better place again - even if it's only a little bit.
God no that would be the thing I am least interested in. I am a "Likeable" rather than a "Popular" person
To an extent. Im happy that im surrounded by just a few very close friends, but also i feel like i may be missing out on big events or gossip
No. Other people can go fuck themselves. I know I don't need those people because I'm better than the popular kid and his friends combined
Never have, never will.
Where I'm from (and maybe the rest of the world) you have to act and dress a specific way to be popular and it's just not me and I HATE fake people. So I rather have zero friends than many fake ones.
No, I don't worry about it. It tends to take care of itself if you just live your life and take care of business.
I mean I used to a lot and a part of me still cares about fitting in but I'm working on not giving a shit anymore.
I do, I'm a people person and get bored alone very easily lol. If my friends just stopped talking to me I would go cry in a corner 😩
lulz
thats why on this app?
@Atterlonglongtime pretty much, good way to spend a few minutes
Few minutes?
Don't you chat with peeps?
nope, not into ego, happy with who i know i can trust, not need big group to know who i am or think gives importance & fake people,