Thanks for MHO :)
I'm not able to follow sports either. I'm never able to figure out what's going on.
Which wage gap?
Honestly, the gender wage gap has be debunked and almost no reputable economist has vouched for it. You want to earn as much as a man? Then work as hard as he does and you will.
@TonyBologna25 you don't know shit. There are statistics everywhere. Women earn 20+% less than men *for equal work, equal educaton*.
Nah, it’s illegal and untrue that women get paid less when comparing the same job and position a man does, the wage gap does not take into consideration the fact that women take up lower paying jobs and work many less hours than men overall. It is a myth built off of a false premise that leads many to believe women are just paid 75% of men’s earnings because they are women, completely disregarding the income of the jobs they occupy and the amount of time worked.
@brainbuzzz It's not "illegal". Corporations can do whatever they want (and often they pay as little as they have to, to benefit shareholders, etc.). In the future A. I. (and currently in some big Silicon Valley tech firms) will do more of the sorting through resumes, and names, genders, age, location, etc. will not be factored in to who gets interviews/jobs. Positions will become more objectively merit-based.
@TonyBologna25 Claudia Goldin?
"It's not "illegal". Corporations can do whatever they want"Again this is false
I work in finance, men constantly tell me to smile and have unappropriate looks like looking you up and down... when we talk about work they ignore me and talk to each other, you just dont get the same respect no matter how capable you areonly way to suceed is to sleep with them or be an extreme ruthless bitchand most bosses are men that usually talk to and respect men and instnalty have prejudice if you're a womanso no, its not the same
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I've never known a single woman who doesn't prefer bad boys over nice guys.
@man_with_a_pan I knew I'd get someone saying that. Well, that ain't me son.
As a woman, I have to say that what you’re saying can be accurate, it just depends on the woman. Many women choose to be with men who don’t show emotion, and they think that men who do are weak. However, I’ve met a lot of women (including myself) who are fine with men showing emotions. We’re all humans, and emotions are a common thing. We all have them. Not a lot of men show it though, and I've met a lot of men who shame other men for showing emotion. And it’s not all of us who date men for their money. I’m going to tell you I wouldn’t be in a relationship with a man who couldn’t take care of himself at all financially, but I don’t expect any guy I’m with to pay for everything or to be rich. But not all women are the same.
Why do guys wake up with erections? Is that every guy?
@Justsmile_ I don't know if it is every guy but I know a large number who do, they have also explained and I can also confirm that these erections are not from sexual pleasure, they just happen and it confuses us too :/ It is a really problematic issue if we need the toilet too, all of a sudden you are planking the toilet or doing some weird time of yoga poses to get a stream that actually goes into the toilet and doesn't make a mess :pMy top guess for why it happens in the morning would be because the muscles in your body are still stiff in the morning and they haven't relaxed yet, which could possibly be a cause to result in the muscles in guys dicks to start off erect during mornings, but I am not sure ^_^
Where the hell do you live so I can avoid that place? Lol
Land of the free being overrun by man hating feminists and softies
You are wise uncle :D
I don't feel I'm undesirable... it can be hard to meet girls
So what are you going to do about it? What's your plan for the future? Sincere question.
@Wally48 I'm trying to get in shape and make money and get a graduate degree so I can increase my status - the other thing is - I've considered dating younger guys since guys my age are usually married
Sounds like a good plan. I really wasn't husband material until 27, so don't go too young. Good luck.
That's very true... same for black women.
That's a good way to think about it.
thanks took me years to learn to think that way tbh
What kind of special treatment do girls get at the bank?
At bank if I cut line at least half the men and women may start booing and become physical with me or some male while a women with her husband was allowed to go 13 points up the queue to be served first. I had evidence and everything yet this happened.And those who downvoted me should know that it does exist women do like double standards. Same women who call men pigs sitting in drawing rooms are the same who ask for preferential treatment the most living on parents money.And girls also got hired more for their beauty and physique. They should not deny it. It happens quite frequently
Hired for beauty and physique? Whaaaattt?😂😂In every field?
@kayaleyla285 well you don't have to believe it but it is true. Seen with my eyes
Thats injustice God!
a lot of men in online chatrooms type with there penis. (I mean not literally, but you get the point.)
Lol, yeah there are quite a few steps missing in between.
Not true. That's just the women you date.I do not talk about my boyfriend or anything related to my friends, it's private.
oh my god i'm gonna cry
because of all the hardship you poor thing have to face
@morrowlow ru being sarcastic or being fr?
how can i joke about something so tragic? i'm sorry i don't have a vagina to understand how periods are. i'm sorry for having a penis in fact i'm going to cut it off just to show my support for women
@morrowlow oml i didn't mean it like that
too late. i already cut it but i would like you to have it now if you give me your address i'll post it to you. you can wear it around your neck as a trophy and be a role model to other women
@morrowlow ummmmmm ok?
@morrowlow I love you mate😂😂😂😂😂
That's interesting. You feel like men can't rely on others?
We are trained to deal with what comes our way, it does matter if it's a dirty floor or a broken car. We simply are trained to be independent caretakers.
Interesting. My husband sometimes uses the phrase 'learned helplessness' when it comes to my mother. She's not proactive nor does much to take care of herself or her life.
That physical disadvantage also means if you ever harass a man in public no one gives a shit. Or that if you abuse a man at home he won't be believed and will even be ridiculed.
That’s true too, and I think it’s horrible. However, I think the physical disadvantage is worse. I’m in pretty good shape for a girl, and if I hit an average guy as hard as I could, I doubt I’d do any lasting or long term damage. If an average guy hit me as hard as he could, he could very well kill me with that one hit.
Hey stop trying to get girls on this site bro, you know us men have a lot worse to deal with than shaving.
Lmfaooo called him out. That bullshit ass "im not like the others"
White knighting won't get you laid
@Nachowedgie B... But he has a guitar!
are you being sarcastic or are you an idiot?
Oh yeah some lucky soy boy/white knight living in her mom's basement. Wait till you see society for yourself
I’m so fucked up that I hide my deep voice. My voice is super fucking deep.One time I accidentally let it fully loose while on the phone with my dad. And my dad has a super deep voice too. He probably doesn’t even know I have a deep voice.Anyways one time it got out, full force. We were on the phone. He was like “what the hell was that? A lion?” I just laughed and told him I don’t know what the sound he heard was.I’m so ashamed of everything masculine about me. And
@Kaazsz It sounds like so much work to hide your voice every time you talk.
That's what men do. We go with the flow and use it like how we're suppose to use it.
@flower7 I do not do it on purpose. It is automatic. A life of trauma and being told that men are pigs and stuf like that has over the years resulted in how I am today. Totally and utterly ashamed of being a man.I’m trying to reclaim my masculinity’s. Because that’s what women want and if like to find love again. But it’s really hard to want to embrace my manliness when everything is always telling me I am a monster for being a man.It’s hard.
And of course we'd be monsters for using it too much. The double standards too is what I haven't mentioned. Also an example. A man sees a lost child specially if it's a girl. She approaches him. Avoid her, he's an asshole. Help her out, he's a pedo. Id rather be an asshole tho. And worst of all both is what society see men.
But what's wrong with having a deep voice?
Never mind, I see. I didn't see your new posts when I asked this. You both posted answers while I was typing.
Try breaking down without sounding like a wimp with your deep voice.
There is no logic to how I feel. I am broken for reasons I don’t understand. Trust me I wish I did so that I could stop being like this and girls who like me could finally have me.I know girls like me. But I’m terrified of being a man and being sexual. I fear that women fear me. That women see e as a sexual monster.This stuff is deep down inside me. I did not choose to be like this. I hate this. I wish I could change but I don’t know how.I know women want me to be more masculine, and to take what I want. I feel like a rapist sexual monster for trying to get what I want. Which is a girlfriend lol. I But girls don’t date guys who completely and utterly hide their sexuality and masculinity.Most girls think I’m gay.Despite all I’ve improved on I stil feel lost. I’ve come so far and am now more lost than before.
I have tried it, it's tough and all you really learn is avoid fights if you can because you can never be sure to win a fight independent on how many moves you learn. Taking out armed men is simply to risky. But it's a good exercise and beat paying for a gym card.
I'm hoping I can find a class where I can actually get a little hurt. I think if I can prove to myself that I can get hurt and then still fight, I'll be more confident in situations where I may have to fight.
Oh you will be hurt, I looked like i had been abused by having arm and legs full of blue marks and red strangulation marks on my neck. And cuts in my face from the boxing so yeah you will shrug of more pain than before. And they will end each class by pushing you to the brink of exhaustion, just to train your fighting spirit to keep at until your last breath. It just a matter of endurance it will be really painful in the beginning but not so much towards the end of the semester. But you will still be exhausted. You just don't feel like it the same way and recover faster.
Thanks for the insight. That sounds like it would be beneficial for me (though I might hate it in the moment sometimes).
You will also train with girls and your not allowed to make it easy for them. They will learn that size and mass do matter when a guy knows how to fight. So those lessons are more for them then you. But most girls tend to drop out before the end. They can't take it.
Oh nice. It's good that they are realistic. That's one of the things that attracts me to krav maga.
It has some basic training that is just simply there to learn moves part by part and isn't realistic other than that it is as realistic you can make it without serious hurting the opponent. Still a handful did still hurt their hands badly. So they had to cut down on training. I was close a few times once my hand another my neck but could continue after checking and feeling the harm. So it involves some risks.
I'm down! I'm ready! (or so I think 😬)
Do* not so*
You connect everything with sex?
I don't think a flat assed woman would ever get any male attention... not these days. Guys seem to place a lot of importance on butts.
@WolfsRoze Good to know someone doesn't.
Don't get me wrong I do enjoy it the opposite sex however my attention is drawn to other details such as your personality
Actually statistically its men who are much greater victims of rape and assault, this is also not including the percentage of men who dont seek help or acknowledge it out of shame or being seen as less a man.
@ZenCarter Most women are weaker than men around them, that makes it easier for them to get raped. Most raped men are either boys or the got manipulated into having sex like blackmail or risk of losing their job. That makes it scarier for women to go out at night or in certain neighborhoods. But yes it is true that most men don't get the right help after this sort of crime happened to them and that is a shame!
@ZenCarter sources please...
@juliaanita My sex education teacher from high school 2 years ago
not you, Ann. This ZenCarter guy... :)
Glad you're enjoying it.
People don't care if a woman is raped? Eh woman which planet you live Yes some women get blamed for being raped but male sexual abuse is basically ignored and even made into a joke