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I want a smart girl. I want a girl I’m attracted to.I’m perfectly attracted to average looking girls.But I’m highly attracted to very smart girls.As long as she’s average it’s fine. But I don’t care how smart you are if you're ugly and obese.And I don’t care how hot you are if you’re braindead. Tho I’ll still fuck you I just won’t date or marry you.
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you want dumb and ugly? hit me up lol
@Sevenpointfive yeah I love them
you must be easy to please. are they broke and homeless too?
@Sevenpointfive nah I like ones with jobs
My guy would be the first to admit he is not a looker. I am the same. Our IQ's are very similar. What is more important than either is the way we try to care for each other. The way we fit together in our relationship. He is a fantastic partner and lover.
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Both are overrated by many people.While it is important to also be physically attracted to the person, physical beauty still is a fading good and thus it's not important to get a super model or something.And while it is important to have someone that can keep up with your intellect for conversation, you don't need to have an Einstein as a partner to have a quality relationship.Things such as compatibility, compassion, love, being willing to give more than you receive (when it's mutual), etc. are way more important for a healthy and functioning relationship.
You didn't answer the question so thumbs down 😆
This is a hard question. Because on one hand, I’d hate to be a dumb bitch. No one is ever gonna get the one-up on me. But on the other hand, attractive people seem to go farther. They’re more liked, more sought after, more catered to. Like the saying “it pays to be pretty”. I guess I’d choose my intelligence over looks but that’s tough 😟
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Of course I could be happy with both but intelligence over looks but not a know it all but rather a person that is fun to talk to and relate with based on her knowledge for example someone fully aware of pop culture vs. Someone that only knows fashion and make trends
I've learned not to be so picky in terms of looks, even though they do matter, at least a little. It doesn't hurt to have a pretty girlfriend. She doesn't have to be a supermodel. But in the long-term view, brains are awesome for a partner to have. you get to learn as well as your information and experiences appreciated and learned from.
I prefer personality. Genuine people. People who aren't afraid of difference. Who dont judge themselves or others.Looks fadeAnd intelligence is relative. Everyone is intelligent in their own way. Though not everyone discovers in what way they are intelligent. Because they are too busy judging themselves. Too busy seeking to be the only form of intelligent that society recognizes.Personality. Good personality helps you discover yourself, your beauty, and your own unique intelligence.
Intelligence, there are very few people i’ve met that are willing to get into a true intelligent debate and not turn it into an emotional argument. (Or are able to rely on anything but emotion) Having witty intelligence bumps a person from a 6 to a 10 in my eyes.
I dont think i could ever be happy with a woman who only had extreme beauty and intelligence.She would really need coin too and a bionic maxejac 11 speed hard squirting vajeen with realistic light and sound.She should cook and be an artist tooOh and do that c3po translating shit but in a less annoying way.
I think I would be happier with a girl who is attractive with average intelligence. I am not smart enough for a high IQ woman and even if one was somehow interested in me I would be setting myself up for a relationship where I am stressed out and lose every argument.
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Obviously both. Who the hell wants an airhead? They look ugly cos they’re so dumb. And nobody wants someone they’re not attracted to either. There needs to be balance to everything in life. Everything needs to be perfect for the individual in order to be fully satisfied. Dumb people should stay with dumb people and not expect intelligent people to ever consider them.
Whoa calm down lol 😂
Don't really have a preference. Way back in my uni days there was this girl i asked out on a date. She was not stunningly beautiful or like super intelligent. I just loved the way she smiled to be honest and that's why i went up to her. I'm indifferent to intelligence and looks. i mean obviously she must be able to think reasonably and not look like a vampire, haha.
Both. The most importaint for me is that she is a non-smoker.Intelligence (preferably social) would be of great value to me. I would like her to have some post-high school education. She has to be attractive to me, and take care of her body. I know my list is extensive!
Seems very reasonable for the right girl. Thanks for sharing. 🌸💜🌸
I like average girls with more intelligence. And I truly mean it. Once I had a crush on a beautiful girl but while talking to her I found out she was one of the dumbest one you could ever meet. My crush on her went away after that. And also I am highly intelligent myself so if you don’t have at least basic intelligence we will never work out
There many types of intelligence. You can be profecient in the arts and music but not in math and science. and people can be taught. Looks on the other hand, you ever have them or you don't. Even make over shows can only do so much. So I'll take the pretty girl. Less likely to be one of these self described sapiosexuals. One of the more insipid type of phony.
Fuck yeah id like both... But here's where it gets tricky... i used to have a girlfriend who wasn't a looker at all... but she was smart funny and just plain ol cool as fuck and we had hella fun hanging out... and to me that made her hot.. plus she claimed to love sucking dicks... which alone made her a winner... even though I knew she wasn't... so I guess if i think she's hot fuck what anyone else thinks... because ugly and stupud really doesn't do it for me
As a sapiosexual I get really attracted to intelligent and creative people so I guess it's more important for me. there's this thing tho... Every time I got in a reletionship with a girl who doesn't look that good I eventually couldn't do it, even tho I wanted. Guess it made me feel somewhat pretentious.So I guess both are important.
Mix of both if I'm to be honest. However I'd also need a dash of maturity, a cup of kindness, a spoonful of playfulness, a sprinkle of raw humour etc 😘
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Honestly, it's a very close tie for me. I'd love to have someone that looks amazing, but if they're as dumb as a brick I don't think I could stomach talking to them for too long... On the flip side, I'd love to have someone to have conversations with, with everything being possible in said conversations and lessons/facts learned for both her and me, but uh... ... I'll be blunt. If she looks like crap, I'd just stay friends.
Must have a respectable amount of both. I don't like idiots or people who don't put effort into their appearance.
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Sorry, I need to have both. Eroticism is a function of what’s between your, ears as much as what’s between your thighs.
intelligence is only important if you use it as a tool for a more successful life. Someone working a 9-5 or an average job doesn’t need more than common sense and whatever skills they learned for their intended job. If they aren’t using their intelligence to get ahead then I guess looks are more relevant to a relationship than intelligence
I could absolutely be happy with both! :) But If I had to choose one over the other, I'd pick intelligence. there are steps to make a woman more attractive, but you can't fix stupid.
My husband is a gloriously magnificent blend of both. :) I borrowed his description of me.
I want a girl that has both intelligence and looks but if I had to choose between the two intelligence for sure I don't want an idiot who has no common sense or any sense of loyalty to be my significant other that would scare the s*** out of me
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Does Looks and brain power really matter in a relationship. Meaning there will be gray subjects you won't know that your partner will and vise verse.
Isn't it Annoying when someone answers a question with a question?😆
Whats the meaning of life?
Intelligence first always a woman with a mind can achieve so much more and I love one who is my partner not my dependent.
I would have to say intelligence because beauty is only in the eyes of the beholder I don't want someone who isn't as smart as me I would love them to be in my category if not smarter
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Graduate and PhD backed women are proven to be better at sex then classically beautiful women but sex is not the goal in a lasting relationship so smarty pants may rule my skool
Definitely intelligence. I hate not being able to have a decent conversation with someone.
looks gets my initial attention, but if there is no intelligence then I don't stay interested for long.
Makes sense 😊
Looks over intelligence, but personality over looks.
For regular dating I am a bit looser towards that yes, but long term things, no never
You're welcome! :)
I prefer a combination... Because noatter how hot a person is, if they can't hold a conversation with me, it's a massive turn off.
Decent or needed looks. With a good intelligence and a good personality.Looks help get people to talk to you. Intelligence and personality. Are what keep people around.
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Really because I think it was full of typos. Should be “decent looks”
Okay well it was shitty. Hope that helps 😊
I also thumbs you down just because it was so awful. Lol😆
For myself and my friends intelligence. Othervise looks since there is a lesser threshold to enjoy looks
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Intelligent women are amazing but I won't act like I don't notice looks first. I prefer intelligent women but I'll react to what I see first
Intelligence à thousand time more, I mean of course the look in a really great bonus but the intelligence is a power that can ignite more passions than the look.
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Honestly neither. The only thing I care about is personality.
Looks and communication skills... Being able to hold a convo... Being respectful... Texting back in a good time if not busy
You find any that match this description. 😝
@Abvpatil yea quite a few.. talkin to one now
Looks! Me! You must be visually impaired 😝
I like intelligence because I'm intelligent and all intelligent girls I know are beautiful
Intelligence for sure, I'd rather talk to someone than look at them
Of course both somewhat appealing but mostly intelligent
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Looks is somewhat important but if he is not intelligent its a big no.Look fades and mind lasts
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I would prefer intelligence. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Well said 😊
Preferably a mix of both. If I could only choose one then intelligence though.
I could be happy with both, but I'd rather have intelligence.
Me too 😊❣️❤️
"Could you be happy with both"... You ask that like one (looks or intelligence) can't possibly go with the other, or I don't know, that just seems like the obvious best answer. Anyway, my answer is looks then intelligence.
They tend to go together. If you have one usually you have the other.
That's completely false but thanks for sharing 😊❣️❤️
I can be especially happy with both. I want a woman who is very smart and beautiful.
Looks. Women's sexual market value is based on beauty and fertility.
On discord guys have fall in love with me without seeing my face
So its not completely true but okay
Why not both? But intelligence is important. Looks a bonus
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both, if I had to choose and were talking long term , looks go out to the scrap pile
Both not to smart my experiences lot of super smart people are socially dumb.
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Intelligence last forever.A girls looks will fade by 30... maybe 35.
Totally disagree with that second sentence 😆
You'll see in a few years. 😊
Doubt it. We don't wrinkle in my family. We actually get more attractive with the years. 😆😆😆
to me it does not matter at all i just care how she treats me
LOOKS ARE GREAT BUT WHEN SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT "THAT THINGY" SHE WANTS YOU TO FIX IS CALLED THINGS CAN GET UNNECESSARILY DRAMATIC..
Looks only. You never want the girl to be the intelligent one. She will take over as boss lol. I praise intelligent women though. Good for them.
Intelligence for sure. It doesn't hurt if both coexist.
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I could be happy with both... But some slight form of intelligence... Lol
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