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I am really empathetic with others and give them the benefit of the doubt as much as I can. I don't do that so much when I am judging myself. I know I can be better, but sometimes I need to remind myself that I am already enough.
i definitely do xD good thing i decided to ee a therapist about it. therapy is the best.
Oh I know for a fact I do! My friends and coworkers constantly tell me I'm my own worse judge: from my weight to doubting my decisions.It's human nature to judge yourself a little harder than others see you.
I used to. I was most unkind to myself. Now it all stems from within, u?
Yes, I do judge myself harshly. I do so though because of the way people have judged me and the negative things they have said to me, so I kind of just started believing what they said and became my toughest critic. I don't judge other people though because I know what it's like and it sucks.
In the society that we live in, with all the reality shows and models out there it's extremely hard to not judge yourself. a lot of the time we base how we want to look like, feel and present to the world around us on shows or films about characters that are often fictional.I learnt along time ago that people like you for you being yourself. It's the difference in people that makes this world incredible and all the more beautiful. So instead of judging myself, I looked into the mirror and saw, truly saw who it was staring back at me. This was me, this is me and damn, I'm going to own that person that I am.
I used to, but that's only because I hadn't yet realized that my luck is unusually bad. I actually hold myself to impeccable standard now, because the cost of me screwing up seems to be unusually high. I think that there is a pattern in my life of the worst case scenario shit happening every time something goes wrong; and I never get the benefit when a situation could go either way.Like, I'm the kind of guy that people make little stories about to warn their kids not to do shit that isn't common sense not to do. "Don't ever point a mirror up to the sky, Timmy. You never know when a Russian spy satellite will be blinded by the reflection, and misfire a death laser at your loved ones." I'm too scared to deal drugs, because I'd be the guy that everyone ratted out when the cops stop them for a misdemeanor possession.
Yes, example i guess. I got fat over a period if 4 years from around 60 kg to 127,5 kg. One time brushing my teeth i kept noticing my man boobs shaking. And i started ripping my self a new one. Fat f... U lazy mofo godamn ugly sack of sh.. u gonna start training and get in shape u son of a b... Did that like 3 years started hating myself. One year later well one year and 3 months i weighed 72 kg. I cut out everything even made myself battle through when my stomach was rumbling cause it was so used to much more. No sugar no coca cola. Even force fed myself vegetables. Dunno if that would be harsh ^^
Yeah, I grew up around a pretty crappy environment. I try not to act like people who make clicks based off of their own ignorance and stupidity. I Judge myself whenever I do something that I believe is wrong, or when life is not going well I think if I am doing something wrong or anything. I don't like being part of "the pack"/"the Boyz". Because I've seen adults with same personalities as them and see how miserable they have made their lives because of those same qualities. I try to aim higher and so I Judge myself and my actions to see if I need improvement.
oh yeahhhhhhh i think its fairly common with people. Im learning though how to just let go of thoughts that dont serve me
I definitely do. Everyone always says I judge myself harshly. But I think it's just being realistic about myself. I hate the idea of being arrogant or falsely confident.
Yes! I can get very self-conscious over my physical flaws that other people have told me they never even noticed until I mentioned it 🤔😣
Stop comparing yourself to others and meditate find one with self
Yes i do. If i see others judge me based on my mistakes and bad decisions. Than i beat myself up for like a year by letting my mind go in five different directions. Everyone else tells me that i should not be too hard myself. But most of time i am.
Sometimes because I’m hardly ever good enough for myself.
Nah, not really, at least not anymore like I used to do before, I've learned to let things go since then.
No. I have met guys my age who have accomplished much more in their lives than I have. I work my ass off to follow their example.
Eh yeah but it doesn’t really matter to me I know I got shitty teeth (parents don’t take me to the dentist because they are expensive as fuck) but I work on myself everyday trying to make my problems better so they won’t hold me back
We all do from time to time There are no greater enemy than ourselves
Yes definitely. I always see my thoughts and actions in a negative manner even if I have done nothing wrong.
Very much so. I'm hardly ever good enough for myself. I can still think about mistakes I made years ago and criticize myself mercilessly for them.
Yes, but it’s what led me to get skinnier, work out, love myself, and sometimes suicidal thoughts but when you weight the pros and cons the pros are better.
Yes, I am judging myself harshly. I cared about others more than I care about myself, and that's just me.
Difference between rich people and poor people. Rich people blame themselves first. Poor blame others first. - dan lok
I am more forgiving and nonjudmental to others. But I am very hard on myself!! I have been told
If you are judging yourself harshly means you have no confidence in yourself !
Yup and it gives me suicidal thoughts I judge my self on my past present and future. Where I should be why aren't I there What i should. have why dont i have it
No, Others do it for Me if Need be. xx
The issue is that I am not sure. I can be very self concious.How about you, anon?
OMFG yessssss. It's horrible 😭
No, i need to judge myself even harsher =-)
Yeah i think i'm too hard on myself
I kinda judge myself to harshly
I try to always judge myself harder than others.
Yes, we're all our own worst enemy at times.
Yea I judge myself on how I look
Sometime I do. Yes.
Yes, I'm always harder on myself.
Sometimes. Not often.
Greatly, I'm a bum.
I always have
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