Who was on your mind when you wrote that?
LMAO, yeah I guess that was pretty obvious! I can't really call her an ex, because we weren't dating, but it was definitely a romantic friendship... that or I (and at least 3 dozen other women) are real chumps.
I think if you're in that place where you're more than friends, but not together, they're still always going to feel like an ex when it's over. You have the same feelings, and sometimes put in the same effort as you would if it were a full relationship.
I don't know what to call her though, and that annoys me. She really got angry with me when I wrote her an email to tell her that I couldn't see us just being friends. She started smearing my name and everything; she was PISSED. I think we were more of a couple than she wanted to accept. By telling her my side of the story, and telling her that I didn't want to be her friend, I think I broke her heart.
It is incredibly hurtful when a guy, who you got along so well with and cared for, and who you thought cared for you, tells you that he doesn't want you in their life, or doesn't say anything and just cuts you out simply because you aren't in in a position to be together at that time. It's worse than a relationship break up, because we as women don't always fully get why we can't keep a friendship. For us, it's better than nothing at all... unless something really bad happened. You guys seem to look at it more logically. You have a completely different view, and we wish we knew fully what that view was. Still, that is no reason to seek revenge. It's not like you actually did something wrong. There is no reason not to wish that person well. Not that this is any consolation, or an excuse for hat kind of behaviour, just know that how badly a woman behaves is very often of how badly she is hurt. Not all women do this, most will understand, but some prefer to act out their feelings. You know this though, if you know you broke her heart.
Something bad definitely happened, but I am not sure if she realized that. I'm just assuming I broke her heart, because she came after me the way she did. I actually just discovered that her another of our mutual friends has decided to block me on Instagram. Like I said, I don't even know what to call her anymore. She was not the villain in my story, but I know that she would become the villain if I stayed. It seems like she might become the villain still anyway...
Women have high sex drives too._.
@Warmapplecrumble - You missed the whole point. Not even close to what I said, and changes nothing. High sex-drive in a woman is about FEELINGS honey. You've spent all this time here on GAG and still not learned anything. Oh well.
You don't understand women can have much much more higher sex drives then women. Just google search it.
Men**** ugh typo
@Warmapplecrumble - It's hard to believe a 28 can have so much confusion. Oh well. Again, how can you spend so much time here and not learn anything? And you're going to put your faith in some comment you found on the internet? Dear god woman, you don't even realize how dumb that sounds. Worse, it's not even your question. Go bug someone else - you're a lost cause.
I'm basing this on me.
@Warmapplecrumble I don't think he's talking about the simplicity having a very high sex drive.We can want sex god knows how many times a day, we can be permanently turned on sometimes, there are levels of it and it can come in huge waves. That's a want, & a need for sex, but if that's what it's like for us. Imagine what it must be like for guys, who are driven by a primal urge to have sex as many times as they can, with as many women as they can. We're often led by our need for sex, we aren't driven by it.We will never have a guy's brain, we don't have dicks or balls, and we don't share the same amount of hormones.It's not a competition, and the fact is we will never know what's fully going on in a guy's brain when it comes to sex. There is a reason he wrote this under what he wishes women understood, because his point has kind of been proven.
Freakin' brilliant. :)
Aka everything I have
The fact you'd need to explain all that kind of means you are complicated
Hey, they asked, I told. Nothing complicated about it, lol
yea sure you women are not complicated xD
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The ones who do everything everything they can to look unapproachable are usually the shy, spoken for, or afraid of rejection ones.That's what's going on there.
Or the ones who are playing hard to get. But it's frustratingly difficult to try to figure out which of those categories any given girl falls into.
I love this
If you knew for sure she liked you, would ask her out then?
Maybe. If I get enough confidence for having that knowledge then I would
It doesn't make you ugly actually. Tell a woman that she looks beautiful and ahe'll never believe it, it's such a pain. We find woman attractive in many ways, we just don't know how to say it. Reality is different from what we speak. Our words don't justify feelings.When I say "big boobs" doesn't just mean large size boobs. Language flaws. We're not machines who will keep praising your beauty all the time.We find women attractive, we just don't say it because we don't know how to say it. Even when we try to tell them that they look attractive , they won't believe it.
This is very true
We get that you don't like talking about feelings ... but understand that we can't read minds either, which is why we sometimes ask. We're over thinkers and usually jump to the worst possible conclusion when left to come up with one outselves xx
MHO this guy
Its a trend to masculinuse women like majority of fashion trends.
Oooh especially when there real ones start growing back I'm sure that 4 eyebrow look works for someone!
Listen to women logic: have beautiful eyebrows, shave them, then draw them with a permanent marker in the shape of the nike logo.
heyyy I am from Bulgaria lol.
lol how? :D
аз съм от България, Но живея в Кипър. Обичам дългите разходки в планината. (Lol here's proof)
Nice one Google translate Say something only bulgarian would say!
Uh... speak for yourself dude. Crummy tits don't get my attention.
I understand women quite well
I do agree wish i understood women better. I dont think ill ever understand women but sure is fun trying to figure y'all out. Lol
Dont look like a perv when you do it
@Warmapplecrumble there's nothing pervy about walking up to a chick and saying hi. But if you wanna be a bitch about it that's on you. We'll just find someone else.
That was funny shit thanks for making my day!
That's why I'm here. I'm here all week and don't forget to tip your waitress or stripper depending where you're at... lol
Reminds me of my mom
I understand that. I grew up in a single parent household, and I know it's not the same as it is for guys not to have a father around, but I get it.
Good most dont know that... so you know you going to have to teach him how to be a man
ONE FEMALE DOWNVOTE? Fuck you dude!
What you may consider hints are obvious signs of body language which is a form of communication. If a man can’t understand basic cues, he’s likely a waste of time in the social arena.
@AuroraRoseat If that was true all women would give out the exact same hints and men would not have any trouble noticing them.
Based on the questions and criteria that some men think are hints, I’m surprised a lot of you are alive.
@AuroraRoseat You just wrote two sentences and said absolutely nothing with them.
yea sure. lol
That attitude is why you won't get one.
why should I stay out of the dm's? lol
See what I mean 2 thumbs up men 1 thumb down weman
Agreed dude. My ex girlfriend didn't allow me to go somewhere with the guys. And if she did, she would blowup my phone with thousands of messages and phone calls. It's so annoying smh...
My biggest petP if I want a mommy to tell me what I can and can't do is never move out of my parent's house
Agreed. Just tell us god dammit. We can't read minds.
@eila7 how so? Because we think ahead about our future children and their best interests? If you find men who care about their kids pathetic, that's pretty disgusting.
You don't give a fuck about her career? But you think she'd have kids with someone like you.. lol Love how you tried to twist the story there 😂
@eila7 why would i care about her career? If she's going to be a great mom she won't have time for such a thing. A doctor or lawyer or part time gas station attendant or nanny all make $0 per hour as a stay at home mom. So whats it matter to me?
If you give a damn about her and she wants a career, you would care. If you don't care , you're just looking for some woman to slave around for you
@eila7 well i care if she's going to be a bad mom. I've never seen or been aware a working woman who was also a great mom. So...
You're an idiot
@eila7 it doesn't surprise me that you would be reduced to name calling when faced with an indisputable fact. Thats what everyone does when they know they are wrong.
HahahaGood luck finding someone who would put up with a selfish loser
@eila7 i wouldn't put up with a selfish loser and i dont want a girl who would either. Usually career women get the selfish losers... the ones who want a womans money they pimp her out selling her fertile years for a paycheck. So good luck with that. Many young women are desperate for a man to come and have a family with them so i dont need luck.
You should see a psychologist
@eila7 are you thick in the head? I'm not going to see a psychologist. That's a career woman. Not interested. Last girl i was seeing was a nanny and lived with her parents.
Nope but you definitely are
We do that for hygiene reasons. It doesn't feel very nice to be hairy. Smooth feels clean and feminine. That's really why we do it. If the Baywatch girls had been running around with hairy legs, armpits, and a flash of pubic hair, would they have looked as appealing? Or would they have looked a little bit grubby? I know it feels natural to guys to have hair and it is for you, but us to having it feels grubby.
That'd be really funny
Asker why don't you shave your head hair to be more hygienic along with your nostril hairs and eyebrows
@WarmappecrumbleBecause the majority of guys find long head hair attractive and feminine.No one can see nostril hairsAnd eyebrows keep sweet from your forehead from getting into your eyes
@Warmapplecrumble because I like having eyebrows and the hair that grows out of the top of my head.I take off what I don't like, and that's fine.
They only want to look that way to feel sexy towards men. You are sexy regardless how you look or feel. If looks and feelings determine sexiness, then it's not really sexy.
True. I also find that a lot of high school age girls love attention from older guys because they think they're getting it because they're "mature", but in every case I've seen guys well into their 20's or older going after teenage girls, it's actually because they're so immature they can't relate to people their own age so they only hang around teenagers, or because they like how naïve, impressionable, and easy to manipulate young girls with very limited life experience are.