Made my girlfriend cry by accident what can I do?
As you did not provide details, it is hard to answer. However, going through the other comments I was able to gain some context.
Two things:
1) At the most basic level, apologizing is always a good idea. It is a starting point for anything that follows.
2) More fundamentally, stop the pranking, "playfully messing" and all the rest. Life is not always about you and being sensitive to those we claim to love is sort of a diminimus requirement.
You never know when you might say that one thing that you can never take back. The hurt you will inflict on someone else and what you will lose.
This is not even to fully blame you. Maybe she is too sensitive and should get some perspective. There is no way to know because you offer no details and, in any case, readers would have no context and are only seeing your side of the story. In any case, her sensitivity, if such it may be, is something to work on in your relationship.
The way to do that, however, is to be sensitive and reassuring. Remember that it is not what you want to say, it is what you want the other person to hear.
So apologize. Hold her in your arms and tell her that you were wrong. Bring her a little gift to make her smile and tell her that you care for her.
You don't make someone cry by accident. You make them cry through harsh words and emotional indifference. Fixing that is the first step.
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Multiple choice.
A) Think like a guy
B) Think like a girl
B is the correct choice. If you think like a guy, you'd probably just shrug your shoulders and think it's no big deal. But that's not going to help. You need to think like her, not the other way around. She wants reassurance. Lots of it.
Half the problems in relationships are because guys try to deal with girls by thinking like guys. And girls try to deal with guys by thinking like girls. It doesn't work, or at least not very well. You have to get into the other's head, and not expect them to think like you.
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I have no idea what happened?
Crying doesn’t mean anything on its own. It isn’t something that needs to be fixed. She cleaned her eyes Out. that’s good.
If she is upset then likely something happened?
Are you upset or just her?
Why is she the only one upset?
what happened?
The important aspects of the situation are minimally :
What was the problem?
How can it be resolved?
Not the crying - who cares about crying.
you didn’t MAKE her cry. Something is bothering her..
Deal with the issue at hand.
see it as a learning experience.
You both joe know about a problem you may not have been aware of. Now you can fix it.
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Say sorry, (and it might mean saying sorry if you didn't do anything) and listen to what she has to say, I mean really listen. Your actions that led to the tears may just be the tip of an iceberg of other stuff that she's been holding on to, but isn't sure how to let go of.
Its also possible that it could be her time of the month so she's just feeling naturally more emotional. Hormones will mess with your head😆
If you want to support her long term, learn about listening techniques, like active listening. You'll be glad you did.
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What did you do, cut onions under her nose? Tell us, how did you make her cry and then we can figure out if there is anything you can do to rectify it,
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Crying is a gift where tears comes from eyes is always best for eyes. It clears the dust particle of your eyes by which it gives comfort to youe eyes
The next moment you get clear vision to decide if its best for you. So you can take a decision from heart. - 960 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Simple
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If you are feeling sorry then you can take her on a romantic date, or give her flower🌷🌷🌷...
If not, then you should be giving her Atlest her favorite chocolate, as you have made her cry, and that's not a gentleman quality... -
Dude first of all that was a dick move on your part. Secondly you better start packing your bags because if she gets to the point where she stops caring. You are fucked. I would probably start cuddling as of right now. You might be looking at a lot of long lonely nights. Just my opinion.
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Hold her tight and give her lots of cuddles. Don’t ask for anything “more” unless she wants more... just hold her and let her know you’re sorry and that you love her
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Build her a cake or something
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Well first off what did you do did you sleep with somebody or did you say you didn't like your tuna casserole
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I don't know. My dad just give my mom a hug and a kisses when she's pissy and bitchy. Lols
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Nthng is by accident... your subconscious wanted to :p
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Don't say you're sorry use actions by doing something that she would appreciate.
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Apologize. This is what people do when they hurt someone.
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Slap her around. Let her really know what it's like to cry so she can be thankful of what little she got.
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As soon as you realise its happening you should comfort her and say and do what you need to. I've said things before that have upset one of my exs and we resolved the issue the same night.
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In my experience, it's the most excruciating thing ever. I never ended up feeling better over the few times something like that happened.
But then all guys are assholes, right? - 10.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. u
Buy her a card and 12 high quality red roses today along with a good vase
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Tell her you didn’t mean what you said. Damn I wouldn’t even joke about that if I were with someone.
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Wrap up some red roses for your blue lady... send them to the sweetest gal in town.
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Apologize if it's Ur fault if not what we can do so apologize if it's not ur fault
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say your sorry. that wasn't funny
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