You said she leaves every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. And is not back until 8 am, leaving a minor home alone 3 days in a row during a pandemic. What clubs are even open? Now you say your bestie is coming over so that's 2 minors home alone and you haven't heard from you mother why would your besties parents even allow her to come over knowing that your mother is MIA and comes home drunk. Are you going to say that your bestie doesn't know this about your mother and didn't tell her parents. When my children were 13 I could pay them to keep their mouth shut... her parent s should be calling child services instead of allowing her to come over.
She knows she just didn't tell her parents
Yes sir.. yes no answer or reply her fb says last on 3 hours ago. I don't know how to cook
Make a call every hour. Send a text to her number and message on FB saying please call me as soon as possible, im worried.Ok, just make a sandwich or microwave something even if it's a can from the cupboard.If no answer and she's not home by 5pm, call 911 and tell them she's missing and she's not responding to your calls or texts.
you can follow the instructions on the back of food, it's quite simple.
Sandwhich? Soup? We don't have that. We have vodka beer milk and that's it
really look around, even in the freezer. do you have any money?
Yes sir. and okay ill look. Nope just my moms credit cards
yeah id avoid the credit cards, fingers crossed she arrives home. Have you got a friend? call her and ask her parents to help.
or any family around you can call?
All my family lives in Texas we in las Vegas My friends I don't know id they parent would feed me.
just call your dad and tell him no food.
he's ganna drive form Mexico to las Vegas?
wow, yeah not a good idea. Hm, well is there literally no one close by you can trust? only put your trust into someone you feel safe around. That is really important as a 13yr old.
Nope I have no friends at school.
does your mum have any friends, or a neighbour she trusts?
as youve got milk just have some cereal again, it seems weird that your mom didn't stock up on any food at all :S
She never buys food we always order food
man dont wait til 8pm, just call the cops if she's not answering or replying to your calls/messages.
Her bestie told me she arrested that's why she ain't replying back.
arrested? like in jail?
Ya dui she be released Monday according to her friend
sorry about your situation, at least you know where your mom is. The police shouldve sent someone to your house by now smh. Does her bestie know you ain't got food cuz she could help
She came over and we at walmart right nown
relief, i know you'll be feeling shitty about the situation. Just try to relax, chocolate helps, when your mom comes home just hug her and say you miss her, being in jail is so humiliating. Like you dont even know why it happened to her, but coming home to a daughter who hugs her will really help the situation calm down and get back to being normal rather than a bad situation getting worse cuz of being angry.
Ya I know I heard stuff of jail people get raped. Her bestie kinda dumb. she bought soup and try to microwave it and it caught firre.
LOL.. that sounds like what a guy would do. anyway all the best
Lol? Its a female not a guy lol she 21 .
call the cops and ask them when your mom is being released. They shouldve visited you to check on your welfare :S
also your bestie shouldn't be taking the keys because how you supposed to leave the house in the event of a fire or emergency. How you supposed to open the door when the cops arrive. When anyone arrives to the door dont open the door until you see some ID. No strangers allowed. Not even your bestie's boyfriend.
Her fb active and she posted photos of her at dennys
dont worry, just wait til she gets home. She may have spent a lot of time in a cell and was super hungry.
She was there 2 days. she home now she called me a brat and spanked me
why what did you do lol
Nothing she always does that when i hugg her. I like it when she does it. She brought me chicken wings (: I'm so happy
aww, how thoughtful of her lmao. shit happens
Ya I love my mom
for what it's worth are you feeling okay about what happened?
Ya i love my mom.
It was put on that topic sorry
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Yes and next door why?
Well, it's perfect then! Next time or now, if still needed, just go over to them and explain the situation. That's all.
My moms bestie here with me right now.
Ah, good! For next time, should it ever happen again, you can memorize this tip.
Ya i will thank you.
You are welcome! I hope the bestie will have some serious talk with your mother so that it never ever happens again.
She the same she ganna go out in a bit.
Irresponsible. So, you know what to do now. Take care!
Ya and i have food in the fridge
Yes i am she here every other day
You are online asking strangers how to find your mother because you are home alone in a house with no food in it, you are not being looked after properly.
Well imgood now
You really aren't.
Because you can't take care of yourself and you should not be left alone for long periods like you are.
I'm good k
No, its not ok.
See? Not ok.Call your family and or social services.
Sometimes the truth sounds mean, and bullshit sounds very kind.
I don't and I don't know what number it would be
How? I don't know how to cook
Okay? And how would that help?
Follow their instructions. It isn't hard, what do you want to eat that you would have the ingredients for in your fridge? I can't believe you are 13 and you can't even feed yourself, damn.
All we have is vodka beer and milk.
That is really sad. What would your mom make with that? Use Uber eats then if you can or just order a pizza.
She always brings me food when she goes out.
Cops said 24 hours
You could try calling family, or any of your mother's friends, or where she works, and seeing if anyone knows anything about what happened to her. Aside from that, all you can do for now is wait.I hope you find your mother.
Thanks me too. i message her bestie
Did the cops really say that? I don't think that is a real thing it is a myth. A missing person is a missing person they won't tell you to wait.
While there is no policy that says cops have to wait 24 hours before filing a missing persons report, it is common practice for police to hold off on filing if there's no evidence of foul play. As unlikely as it might be, there's still a slight chance her mother could just be with the person she met at the club and just hasn't gotten around to making it home yet.If calling 911 doesn't help, you could try going to the police station and reporting what happened to them directly.
Ya they ask me if I suspect that something happen to herb
A better question probably would have been, "Is it common for your mother to be away for this long?"
Oh well they didn't ask that..
The answer to the question I gave will give you the answer to the one the cops gave you. If the answer to mine is no, then there is reason to suspect something could have happened.
No she comes home at 8 am
It's been more than 24 hours, now the cops will have no choice but to file a missing persons report and do something about it.
Ya but she not missing she posting on fb and snap chat.
You said yourself, she wouldn't leave you alone for this long. I don't want to scare you, but it's possible that if she was abducted and the person who has her could be using her social media accounts to make people believe that everything's alright with her so they won't come looking for her. You know something's wrong, go to the cops.
She in jail.
Oh, wow. I'm sorry to hear that.
Oh that’s bad, sorry to hear that, seems like your mom is irresponsible, can your dad take care of you or is he completely out of the picture?
His pretty much out. he lived in Mexico..
Well hopefully you’re mom gets her act together after this and gets help so you won’t end up in foster care
I don't think I would.
Let’s hope not
Ya she Usally always here.
Yes sir thank u for check-in
One said she in jail she be back Monday
Oof, do you have any family that lives nearby that can get you some food before then?
Nope :/ all my family lives in another state
Are any of her friends good enough to get you some food? I know that people can go about a month without food; but even just a weekend is a challenge.
My bestie coming over
That is good to hear.
Ya. I'm kinda mad
At your best friend or your mom?
Both. my mom for getting arrested and my moms bestie for leaving tonight
My moms bestie was baby sitting me
Did she at least leave you with some food for tomorrow?
Yes but she left me alone and she took my house keys
When I was your age I loved being left home alone. I could get into stuff I wouldn't be allowed to when my parents were home.
I do too but im worried now my mom in jail what if my moms bestie also gets arrested?
What did your mom get arrested for?
It is unlikely that she will get arrested for a DUI a day or two after the fact. DUI's are something that police have to catch you in the act of doing.
My mom was caught drinking and driving my moms bestie is out drinking and driving.
You'd think that she would have learned from your mom's mistake.
Guess she didn't.
Well I hope she makes it back safely
She back but with a guy
Yeesh, your mom needs a smarter bestfriend. Be careful around him and stay safe.
I didn't feel safe so i left my house.
Did you not have a lock on your bedroom door? At any rate, maybe you could hangout with one of your friends that lives nearby.
Nope i don't have a door. And he was asking me if i ever seen a BBC I said no ans he said wanna see one.
Yeah that is the best time to leave.
Ya what a BBC?
In that context it is a big black cock; though it also stands for the British Broadcasting Company. He is definitely a pedophile.
Oh cool cool
Yes, call the cops again.
She at dennys
Why aren't you at Denny's with her?
Her message Well since u started school today i figured u didn't want interruptions at home so i came to have food and now im at the casino.
How are you supposed to focus on school when your mother has been MIA for the whole weekend?
Right? I didn't even log on cause i needed her password for the wifi.
He lives in a different state
Parents ladies and gentlemen, parents 2020. How is she out clubbing during this pandemic? Are we sure she’s out doing that
Yes? Where else would she be wearing a short dress to and high heels?
I don't know, all I’m saying is Covid is out there and clubbing is the last thing anyone should be doing.
Well she leaves every Friday Saturday and Sunday and gets home at 8 am drunk with food for me she didn't tonight
Then I’d call the police
Yes call the cops now
Jeez mother of the year
She bought me chicken wings
A day later
So? we good
She needs to be missing for 24 hours