I have many of both... And I'm a age, I just don't give a fuck about hiding any of em... They're my battle scars at this point
I'm sorry again for your Loss 🙏🏾🙏💙
I pray you overcome them 🙏🙏 and you survived thus far so I'm sure you will, you got this 🤗🤗
Thanks, that's very kind of you. Lol we all have our own issues to work through but I believe it's important to never become the victim to our circumstances. It's how we react that defines who we are. The struggle is real through 😊
You are so right on both counts there 👍👍
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Sorry for your Loss 🙏🙏
What's worse tho? Physical scars? Or a scarred heart? Sadly, I have both 🤷🏼♀️
@Brainsbeforebeauty I'm sorry hun (( Hugs ))
@Brainsbeforebeauty You're welcome :)
@Brainsbeforebeauty <3 <3 🙏
Omg yeah I'm glad you're out of that relationship... I'm glad you found someone better ❤️💙🤗
( by @ people I wasn’t referring to you or your post.. just Experience with Oblivious People irl, spouting useless flowery platitudes, where I feel Like smacking them. But I don’t bc that would just be annoyance not self defense. 😛 🤷♀️😊)
I hear you.. I have many scars, both physical and emotional.. Ain't hiding/covering em up anymore, for ANYONE
I get that. I’m working on it. I think I should’ve said emotional but I think I could forget if I didn’t have to look at it all the darn time.. but I know that’s not healthy bc I have to live with it. It’s faking me a Loooong Time.glad you’re attitude is where it’s at 🤗 💙
I feel the embarrassment and torment that those scars cause you, Vivant. But you are an amazing young woman and I have no doubt that you'll come to terms with them one day. You have soooooo much else going for you, too. <3
@VIVANT not flowery sentiment.. Real life facts... Scars are really just battle scars of life... Means you've lived and survived.. You can smack me now 😂❤️🤗
@brainsbeforebeautyIt’s ok lol I walked right into that. I know.. I have harbor too much resentment.. . I have to grow up. It’s just so maddening. And hmm I’m naturally a fighter. I think that’s the savage part of the whole thing. Having all those memories etched in my mind where I wasn’t quick or clever enough to handle things the way I’d want to be Able to look and remember. There’s a reason people “ go down fighting”Ah! There’s another phrase for your otter post.. though that one kinda makes sense... Anyhow you’re right and it isn’t helpful to anyone for me to be mad and I think some of the “ truisms” are applicable. It also cuts. But that's life. i Jean maybe sort of the problem is the idea that if but for that life would be ok, and I think for the majority of the works life is more not ok than ok... so its humbling. It actually is helpful if I remember I’m just a speck. Buuuut then I forget to plan bc you know I’m just a speck 🤔🤷♀️ ... so that is problematic 😂😂💗@LliamThank you for your power punch 💥 🥊 .. I’m kind of regretting my little pity party cloaked in righteous indignation. Spade is a spade lol ♠️ 💗
Vivant,I didn't hear pity party. I heard fierce determination.
@VIVANT I still remember the conversation we had regarding your post about scars and bathing suits...
@Jjpayne I love your posts, and I know what you are saying. Not your pain, and how you feel it, but I cared for my dad, after several strokes, and then lost my job, taking too much time, caring for him. What could I do? After 5 years, watching him suffer, and HATE life, he finally passed. Yeah, some scars, some nightmares, and sometimes I still hear him calling me for help.You can't let crush you, and depress you! I hear my dad, all the time, when I am down! He says, "Get UP!! I taught you to be a man, and stop crying about this shit!! Get to work, and do something important!!!"Size 10-1/2 work boot, in my ass, for motivation!!Remember the good times, and move on, and do something that would make him PROUD of you!! Probably the best thing you can do!!
@JackSmy thank you!
I hope your scars heal some 🙏💜
Thank you 😞 I appreciate that
You're not alone in that... Stand strong together 🤗🤗
Thank you so much! 🥰🤗
Thank you 💜💙❤️
Well said friend 💙❤️ life really is too short sometimes...
Mental health is being ignored for centuries and it's causing so much damage but people are too damn lazy to take care of them selves and it's very hard to convince someone that they should take it seriously especially males.
I guess I'm guilty of that myself tho 🤷🏼♀️
We all are, no one taught us, no one talks about it and no one wants to open up and be vulnerable to face the fear and make things right. I made my choice to be vulnerable for my own good and now! I say good luck to anyone out there who thinks they can break me
That's good 👍🤗
Same here bud.. Some scars on my back feeling surgery, same as my abdomen, but more scars on my heart
Scars aren't about being a victim... More about being a survivor
Lolol okay rambling man😂https://youtu.be/68X8o0S7vJc
lol.. too funny... AND AND AND... even funnier, when I was a kid around the age of the one in that picture, my hair was very similar... floppy 1970's style mop :)
Admit it that's you for real 😂😂😂
lol... it actually is a pretty good resemblance... instant I saw it, I was like, how the F did she get my childhood pictures? lol :)
I'm everywhere 👁️👁️👀
Also I decided to stay single forever. I don't give a fuck if I don't get a right man. Only he will deserve to be treated like a royalty. I'll let fake jerks rot or die.
Right man or no. man simple. I'm totally cold and heartless for those fake guys who are trying to pursue me.
Well damn, I should be on the front of a Wheaties box by now... And glad the crazy is an ex, noone needs crazy like that around kids...
This was way before I was even married & had kids... fortunately it was entirely my house , she was a guest , then an unwelcome one... and I shoved her straight out the door , and told NEVER to contact me ever again.
That was a good move 👍👍
That's good with the physical 🤗🤗 holding everything in isn't always such a good thing tho sometimes you have to let it out, Release it
Geez definitely far from it. My older brother was bullied a lot as a kid. It sucks.
I'm sorry for the bullying you experienced... People do that cuz they are really the ugly ones, on the inside... Hopefully those scars heal and you see that true beauty is inside as well as out, so don't let anyone yet to take that from you cuz of their insecurities or jealousy 💙❤️🤗
That's good you do that... Best way to be 🙏💜
Yes life comes with battle scars 💜❤️
So sorry to hear that.. So glad they didn't succeed.. And yeah I got robbed at gunpoint with two other ladies and cuz they saw a pouch on my keys, dick the gun between my eyes and if the bus wouldn't of been coming down the street, don't I'd be here now.. And funny tho, cuz had$400 in my bra they didn't get all they got was a purse with a pack of cigs and A Phone charger in it, they didn't get my phone either
"stuck not dick omg 🤣🤣🤣
Glad to hear they're getting better ❤️💙
You're beautiful just the way you are
Thank you. 🙂🤗
I hear yah... There's some things that are our own personal hurts,... I so hope time heals those scars 💜🙏
Sounds like you got over the embarrassment and that's great 👍💜❤️
Yeah scars don't make us less make us more 👍👍 battle scars from life
Well hopefully they heal with time 🙏💜🤗
Scars are just the battle scars of life.. Means you've "really lived"
I would rather have not really lived, in that case.
Well said... Scars are just another road map of the life you've travelled
Indeed, very true. I like your new photo 😉
Listen to the song... YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE... SOMETIMES PERSONALITY DOES TRUMP PHYSICAL LOOKS
O I know lol
Yeah my hands and feet go numb a lot, but so does my heart 🤷🏼♀️
Awwwwe, hugs. Try not to drink too much my little friend, it's not the best for your body.
And look into herbs and vegetables that improve blood circulation, but ladies often have cold hands and feet, it's one reason men are around, so we can keep you warm.
😂😂 that's the reason 🤔 who knew 😂
We secretly like it.
Who's picking 🤔🤣
I do hope they heal for you 🙏🙏
HAHAHAHA sorry but funny lololol
Its all true. I think it comes from eating all that Milwaukee lead paint when I was a kid.
Maybe that's why I don't wear any lololol
So you dont wear clothes at all. You must go to jail a lot
No panties, mr.."panty man" lmao of course I wear clothes lol well outside anyways or when not having hot flashes, but hot flashes and I'm at home, well that's different story lololol
I'm sorry for all you suffered 🙏🙏
Money can't save you from emotional Scars
Psychotherapy, physicians, meds + antidepressants, prostitutes...They will heal my emotional scars.And you know what they want?My money.That's why I need money so I can give it to them so I can get what I want.
Well one good thing to getting old then lol
I know that feeling well
That's good 👍🙂
2020? Or 2021?
Now that I'm thinking about the rest of my life actually
I hear you... But hopefully time will hear those scars and you'll have people in your life that deserve and appreciate you 🙏💜
But that's a battle scar that shows you won 🙏🙏🙂
Glad to hear you're not in jail 🙂 and that you're kinda okay
Just being dramatic maybe 🤣 thnx
Drama king 😂😂😂 just kidding just kidding 🙂
Ahh the hurt 😔
Aww hugs 🤗🤗
I'm shedding careful 👽🖖
Oh well then no hugs for you 🤣
Ptsd is the load I carry
That's a heavy load
They're lost but never truly "gone"🤔💙💜
I agree the live on in my memories
Well hopefully not
I just lost my mother to dementia. About 2 weeks before she died she fell in the nursing home. At one point she was too weak to eat. The nursing home did not give her fluids via IV. I am totally sorry to hear about your wife. If you remember back in the 1980s, Dr. Kevorkian would help people who were near death to die and not suffer more then the had to.I applaud that man. If a person is near death and in constant pain they should be allowed to die in piece.The emotional pain is always worse than physical pain
I'm so sorry you had to go through that ❤️🤷🏼♀️❤️
;) ;) ;)
I hear you scar twin🤗🤗💙
Ouch... Hope it was from nothing serious
Might be one on my hand too. But I don't think so because it's more circular than a normal scar. Like a scale... Or something.
Well hopefully the one on your hand goes away
Damn those were some scratches, I did that once and left marks but not permanent scars, but was embarrassed cuz he showed dudes at work one which also used to come to our house for their band practice 🙄🙄😳 lol
Hopefully they heal with time 🙏🙏
@DreamCatchcer scars from my emergency tubal pregnancy, tubal ligation, back surgery and psoriasis, not to mention the emotional Scars...💙❤️🤗
I hear you brains. Hang in the best you can.
Hopefully they eventually heal 💙❤️
All hopefully they heal or least scab over 💜🤗
Physical ones healed :) rest are old and scabbed up ❤️
Glad to hear it 👍❤️
I so hear you, my scars have scars 🤷🏼♀️
What's worse, tho 🤔 maybe having both 🤔
Both would be worse
But then physical scars heal faster... Hope your scars heal 🤗