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I’m bad too - I’ve done horrible things I’m not proud of esp after leaving an abusive relationship with my ex
@ct1243 Can you give an example?
@David92506 after ending an abusive relationship I showed up at my ex’s hotel with a.45 gun and 2 bullets - one for him and myself
He wasn’t there luckily he left a few minutes before I drove up. Of course his neighbors told him that I came too see him. He left the next day and I got report years later he married someone. His wife messaged me on FB to tell me that my ex was abusing her. He cheated on me for the woman that eventually became his wife.
Now she is wanting to leave him
@ct1243 I'm so happy he wasn't there.I hear stories over and over where the person doing the harm gets away with it.For example, your ex is getting away with it.One nice thing about seeking revenge is that the person doesn't get away with it. Or at least that time.
@David92506 yes I would’ve been in jail so something kept that from happening
@ct1243 Do you have any more examples of revenge you did?
Nah @ David92506
I had a relative decades ago who tried to get revenge on a guy who gruesomely killed his own baby son. The son was also the son of the relative's cousin. The relative sadly got sent to jail the night he planned the murder. That story always upset me. The abusive dad went on to have a normal life with a new son.People who dismiss revenge entirely don't know evil. Who knows why things happen the way they do, though.
Sometimes you're stopping a pattern of behavior for someone else. One that could effect another person.
How did you do that? I had no option but only to move on because he lived so far.
I have my ways to get revenge. When you’ve been hurt badly you do / think of all kinds of things
Yes creativity comes. If there were no other complications then I would have get him beaten up brutally and would have tortured him until he felt the same. I imagine to cut off his tongue letting it bleed because he was such a LIAR. I HATE BETRAYERS.
@Elsa143 I had so much anger built up, but I learned to breathe still am because the pain hurts that much. I wanted to do awful things after my abuse and trauma. Now I’ve become numb to pain
Not your job
To forgive and forget, that is