Me too. I didn't expect to still be single and a virgin. It's funny 'cuz when I was a child I kept telling my mom I would be married at 16. She said I'm crazy, but 16 seemed so old to me at the time. Yet here I am, 28 and never even been kissed. You still have a chance, but for me I feel if I haven't found a girlfriend by this age I never will, unless she's really young. I feel I will end up one of those 40 year old virgins. I had some chances but missed them. I want a girlfriend, but at the same time I also kind of don't, because I know I'm not ready and I'm afraid I'll scare her off. Also, the girls I like romantically never like me back, and the ones who like me are always weird or crazy. I feel I certainly won't find one in my own country. I want to at the very least experience sex before I die. It's crazy that my friends and classmates have families already and I've never even had a girlfriend. I feel pathetic.
@KostasKouvalis Wow I was the exact same, I wanted to be married at 20 and had children at max 22 and now I'm 22 and not married, always been single, never kissed guy and a complete virgin *-*There's nothing pathetic about it, I think if we both haven't even had a kiss it's just cause of low motivation like we want someone but we also have a part of our mind that say "not ready yet" and stuff so we don't really look all that much for having someone.
That's actually kind of true. But I've gotten more courageous in recent years so it's not like I haven't tried. I tried both online and in real life. The main thing is I don't drive and most girls here want a guy to drive. I only met one American girl online who wasn't bothered by it. Most of my chances have been in other countries. But my trips are too short to meet someone and when I go somewhere I wanna sight see. I had chances many years ago when I would spent entire summers in my family's town/village, but I had different priorities back then. And I don't really want a girl from my own ethnicity. It seems boring. I want something different and more exotic.
@KostasKouvalis It became tricky then.Be careful though, if you're too different it would surely cause problem (especially with her family).
Yes and mine too. My mom would prefer if I married a white Western girl. But I feel I could get away with a Middle Eastern or Latina if she was fair skinned and Christian. She can be from any IndoEuropean race, but I see now that she would have to be either Christian, Agnostic or Atheist. The only non Indoeuropean girls I'm attracted to are Native American girls, and Turkish. But Turkish I consider white even though they genetically aren't. But the thing is, if I ever have kids I want them to have my features and skintone. So does my mom. So dark skinned Indian or Latina probably wouldn't work either, even though I do find them attractive. My mom would prefer to keep our European bloodline pure.
Thanks for the MHO.
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You've done alright. :)
Thanks Jamie. Sweet of you.