100% percent agree! For me bdsm can also be very romantic with the right person, and it's also more of a lifestyle for me. I wish more people were educated on it that way us kinksters wouldn't get so much hate for it but at the end of the day I'm doing what makes me happy. Period. :)
@Melamore yes fully agree not only romantic but the level of trust is far greater than a vanilla couple will likely have.That and the emotional connection.It’s incredibly badly represented, you have some guy saying yeah I’m in to BDSM, I give it to her hard and spank her ass It’s like yeah okay whatever,
Haha 😂 yes. You build a trust like no other with bdsm, and I'm happy that I'm open minded and educated enough on it so that I actually enjoy it.
@Melamore also to me there is an important distinction between lifestyle and bedroom Dom’s.It’s also not a case of being greedy and using all the letters 😂
I want all of the letters 😂😂😂 haha
@Melamore reading down some of the replies, they don’t really understand it.Porn and 50 Shades has a lot to answer for lol
Right! Haha, I don't even bother replying to that rude one. 😂
@Melamore 😂😂😂 I knowlol
@Melamore thank you most appreciated
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Same, why limit yourself to one flavor? Haha
Bdsm should always be done with consent, and that is not abuse. However if someone is actually not asking for consent when it comes to bdsm or sex in general that is 100% rape, and abuse. There is a big difference. When it comes to bdsm it can definitely be loving, or it could just be sexual it depends on each couple. In my experience I felt very loved with my dominant partner played with me. He never did anything that he knew would bother me which isn't much, haha, but I felt 100% safe at all times with him, and afterwards we cuddle and talk about love. 😊😊😊
If you say so
It is, and there is so much more to it than meets the eyes. For some people its a way of life while for others its simply a fun sex experience. nothing wrong with either. :)
I agree that no one should be ashamed of it, however others who may not know anything about b. d. s. M may assume it's a bad thing and shame others who enjoy it. I know from personal experiences but I never let it bother me. :)
In porn or practically?