Ghosting someone you're attracted to?

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TL DR - ghosting someone you are close to due to liking them, and afraid of attachment. The person being ghosted has tried to reach out.

Hey folks of reddit.

I and my friend (F,21) have known each other for 3 years, and we largely communicate over whatsapp, met rarely but speak everyday.

Similar music and movies taste. We recommend each other movies/music oftentimes.

I've ghosted her for a month because I've liked her for the white but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or should I wait. I've had a traumatic past and I'm afraid of attachment.

She has tried to reach out twice, saying that she thinks about this a damn lot and she needs to clear what's happening before her exams.

What should I do? I think about her everyday but I'm too egoistic to say I'm at fault and accept my emotions.

What should I do?

Answer 1

MrLizard

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A lot of girls ghost their crush just because they lack of confidence and have low self esteem.

Don't be a coward and talk to her in real life. Make her laugh to make contact easily.

Use your charming smile like that 😏 when you talk to her.

And i assure you that you will get what you want

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Answer 2

StormyWinter

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Step up, being ghosted sucks, it's more than likely messing with her head, it's cruel on your part, if you're not interested in being with her because of your past then tell her, otherwise she will eventually resent the FK out of you.

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