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Ghosting someone you're attracted to?

TL DR - ghosting someone you are close to due to liking them, and afraid of attachment. The person being ghosted has tried to reach out.

Hey folks of reddit.

I and my friend (F,21) have known each other for 3 years, and we largely communicate over whatsapp, met rarely but speak everyday.

Similar music and movies taste. We recommend each other movies/music oftentimes.

I've ghosted her for a month because I've liked her for the white but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or should I wait. I've had a traumatic past and I'm afraid of attachment.

She has tried to reach out twice, saying that she thinks about this a damn lot and she needs to clear what's happening before her exams.

What should I do? I think about her everyday but I'm too egoistic to say I'm at fault and accept my emotions.

What should I do?
Ghosting someone you're attracted to?
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